Category: Trust that they suck


FW of the Week

I read a lot of fuckwit stories on this blog. I could chart the last 11 years of my life in fuckwits. In fact, you …

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Universal Bullshit Translator

UBT: ‘I Am Feeling Extra Sad’

Dear Chump Lady, I was wondering if I could donate some extra Lebkuchen for the UBT for this one? This is about the 4th (I …

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Danny Masterson and the Power of Impression Management

Dear Chump Lady, These freaks fool people so well. I’ve been seeing quite a few shows lately that depict a horrible man, as a wonderful …

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He Doesn’t Seem Upset About Losing Me

Dear Chump Lady, I’m 25. He was my first everything. He told me all the good things and everything I needed to hear including “You …

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My Life Is a Soap Opera

Dear Chump Lady, Firstly, thank you for the support this blog provides. It was instrumental in my decision to leave after my D-Day 3 months …

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OW Taunting, Hard to Be ‘Meh’

Dear Chump Lady, I won’t get into my entire chumped history (newly divorced, narcissistic FW lead open affair during my entire pregnancy last year, failed …

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He Cheats, But He’s a Vegan

Dear Chump Lady, I just bought your book, and I am enjoying it a lot so far. There are parts of the book that I …

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Don’t Break No Contact for ‘Closure’

I once got a nice letter from “Chump Chap,” who wrote after he realized that he’d just gotten a non-apology apology from his cheating ex. …

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Cheaters Are Not Worth Your Precious Life

Dear Chump Lady, God bless you for being there to help chumps! God bless Chump Nation for sharing stories and support to help chumps! Five …

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Stay friends

He Dumped Me for His ‘Best Friend’

Dear Chump Lady, I have been enjoying your blog for many years. Not because of any direct experience with cheating, but just because I love …

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Snappy Answers to Chumpy Questions

Dear Chump Lady, My husband keeps cheating on me with the same woman. They were in a relationship before he and I got into one. …

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Do I Tell the Bride He’s a Serial Cheater?

Dear Chump Lady, I’m writing because I had a “meh slip” this week and my conscience is reeling as a result. Mr. Sparkles is getting …

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My Cheater Isn’t a ‘Bad’ Person

Dear Chump Lady, Do ALL cheaters suck? Like many others, I discovered my wife of 15 years, partner, soulmate, mother of my two beautiful children …

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Serial cheater

How Much Worse Was It?

As we say around here, what you know with cheaters is probably the tip of the iceberg. Or secret sexual storage locker. 100 percent, yes, …

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Can I Send the OW His Emails Begging Me to Take Him Back?

Dear Chump Lady, I owe my sanity to you and to Chump Nation. Thank you. I have been reading your blog for years, but I …

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butt dial

He Butt-Dialed Me from the OW’s

Dear Chump Lady, I left my fiancee after finding out he had an affair with a subordinate of his at work. I still haven’t gotten …

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Holy False Equivalence, Bat Man

Hey, you make mistakes too! Did you forget to renew the car registration? I think that’s entirely on par with a seven-year affair. No one …

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Trust That They Suck

Here’s a problem people new to infidelity get stuck on all the time — they don’t really trust that their cheater sucks. They pine. They …

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How to Get Over the Cruelness?

Hi Chump Lady, I’m struggling over here as my STBXH told me two months ago he wanted to split. He then moved out a few …

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I Want to Out Him as a Cross-Dressing Cheater

Dear Chump Lady, I’m 27F, and have found myself fooled by a manipulative, narc, man child. This came after my late fiance passed away in …

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