Category: Trust that they suck

He’s Checked Out for OnlyFans

Dear Chump Lady, I am so confused. My partner of 10 years, and friend prior to that, has been interacting and subscribing to subscription accounts, …

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Stupid Cheater Lame Excuses

Ever need something from a FW? Then you’ve probably witnessed a barrage of nonsense about why they cannot do you this one small solid. Yesterday, …

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Why Is My Ex Stonewalling Me?

Dear Chump Lady, I am 5.5 years post divorce. I got married to an amazing man last spring. I have rebuilt so much of my …

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Don’t Tell Me to Leave Him

Hello Chump Lady, I just started reading your blog. I found it on Reddit after looking up “can a cheater change”. I’m not really sure …

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The Other Woman Is a Therapist

Dear Chump Lady/CN, First of all, thank you for curating this resource; it’s been invaluable to feel less alone throughout this incredibly isolating experience! FW …

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She Left Me for a Downgrade. Was I THAT Bad?

Hi Chump Lady, I’m a chump, my ex-wife cheated on me with a man twice her age, 59, and then left me and moved in …

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The OW Calls Herself a Feminist

Dear Chump Lady, I am 8 months post divorce from FW, we were married for 21 years. It was such a long road though, years …

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Ex-Wife’s Affair Timeline Doesn’t Add Up

Dear Chump Lady, Your website has been a godsend, you’re funny asides have helped me through a dark time in my life. My name is …

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She Said If I Was French I’d Accept the Cheating

Hi Chump Lady, I became friends with an older (mid 60s) French-Canadian woman who moved into my neighbourhood this summer. Over some wine recently, I …

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Should I Sleep With My Ex?

Dear Chump Lady, What do you think of sex with the STBX? I’ve lost weight and am looking pretty good. I want him to see …

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Cheating Songs That Drive You Nuts?

Dear Chump Lady, I love scrolling mindlessly on my Facebook and Instagram feeds because they’re usually filled with DIY projects, crafts, and other cool stuff. …

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not a unicorn

Took Him Back, Now He’s Cheating with His Boss

Dear Chump Lady, I have been married for 18 years, and I have been with my husband for 24 years. I met him when I …

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Why Is He Copying Me?

Dear Chump Lady, My ex cheated on me relentlessly, with a mind-boggling amount of women. We had four D-days before I had the strength to …

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Universal Bullshit Translator

UBT: Why HER?

Dear Chump Lady, Bullshit translator, please. My ex and I were together for almost 19 years, married for just 1 week shy of 15 years. …

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What Did You Unknowingly Do for the OW/OM?

Hello Chump Lady! I have an idea for a Friday Challenge based on a recent post. Politichump wrote: “The worst part of this is that …

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What Schmoopie Thought They Were Getting vs. What They Got

Hello Chump Lady, This is “TooManyTears” writing to you. I have a Friday Challenge idea in response to Caught Him Cheating on the Doggy Cam. …

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Caught Him Cheating via the Doggy Cam

Dear Chump Lady, First I just want to say I literally love you and your site has brought me so much comic relief into the …

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The Rise and Fall of Wife Guys

Kudos to whoever coined the term “Wife Guy.” I confess, until the Adam Levine debacle I snarked about last week, I hadn’t heard of it. …

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Worst Gift Ever?

Well, it’s been awhile since I’ve run this challenge, which was originally inspired by my birthday post describing some of the Worst Gifts Ever that …

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How Do I Get My Cheating Wife to Reconcile with Me?

Dear Chump Lady, You mention the only way to have your spouse back is with them doing a full reconciliation. What’s that look like? Do …

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