Archives UBT: The Huggy Ex and the OWNovember 16, 2020Tell Me How You’re Mighty, COVID Edition 2.0November 13, 2020UBT: “True Love Is Never a Scandal”November 12, 2020UBT: “I Would Like to Have a Final Conversation”November 10, 2020UBT: “I Forgive You”November 9, 2020When a Cheating Partner Won’t LeaveNovember 6, 2020What Is the First Step?November 4, 2020When the Other Woman Was a FrienemyNovember 2, 2020The Cheater Apology That Wasn’tOctober 30, 2020Why Does He Ignore My Co-Parenting Questions?October 29, 2020UBT: “You Might Appreciate Knowing Some of This”October 28, 2020My Ex Wants to Come Over for the HolidaysOctober 26, 2020Dumbest Insult Your Ex Tried?October 23, 2020Where’s My Justice?October 22, 2020Don’t Wait on That ApologyOctober 21, 2020Jeffrey Toobin’s Troublesome DickOctober 20, 20205 Things That Keep You Stuck with a CheaterOctober 16, 2020Returning to Caretake a Cheater Late in Life?October 13, 2020Is Monogamy Abuse?October 12, 2020What Cheater Red Flags Did You Overlook?October 9, 2020The ‘If You Aren’t Nicer’ ThreatOctober 8, 2020When the Cheater ‘Fails to Understand Your Hostility’October 7, 2020The Family Next DoorOctober 6, 2020Wife Wants to ‘Renegotiate’ the RelationshipOctober 5, 2020Any Karma Stories?October 2, 2020When It’s More Affairs Than You First KnewOctober 1, 2020Cheater Word Salad AttacksSeptember 30, 2020Nearly Engaged…Then BustedSeptember 29, 2020‘He Had a Complete Change of Heart’September 28, 2020‘My Sister Blames Me for My Husband’s Affair’September 22, 2020It’s the End of the World or the Beginning. I Can’t Tell.September 21, 2020Sad Sausage Tales?September 18, 2020When Will I Feel Indifferent?September 17, 2020‘I Can’t Talk to My Kids About Their Father’September 15, 2020UBT: ‘He Played Me Too’September 14, 2020Confrontation Flops?September 11, 2020UBT: ‘If You Need Me, I’ll Be There’September 9, 2020Close Encounters of the Fake Tears KindSeptember 4, 2020‘How Could He Walk Away from His Wife and Kids?’September 3, 2020Woman Has D-Day After Reading Ex’s Wedding AnnouncementSeptember 2, 2020Is My Cheater Ex Jealous?August 31, 2020Be Your Own UBTAugust 28, 2020UBT: Cheating on My Husband Made Me a Better MotherAugust 27, 2020Jerry Falwell Jr., Jesus Swinger?August 25, 2020Chump Won’t Stop Doing Her Ex FavorsAugust 24, 2020Most Ridiculous Excuse After Being Busted?August 21, 2020UBT: ‘My Dad Sucks’August 20, 2020Chumped and Questioning FeminismAugust 19, 2020Discovered CN by Googling ‘I Hate Esther Perel’August 18, 2020My Ex-Wife Wants Me to Go to Therapy with HerAugust 17, 2020Can I Leave a Suicidal Cheater?August 12, 2020A Chump Off the Old BlockAugust 10, 2020Breaking No Contact: How’d That Go?August 7, 2020Dead Bedroom? CheaterAugust 5, 2020No One Is Entitled to ReconciliationAugust 4, 2020Is Reporting Him Revenge?August 3, 2020Your Best Word Salad, PleaseJuly 31, 2020UBT: You Will Use This to Illustrate Your HolinessJuly 29, 2020When Affair Partners MarryJuly 28, 2020One Guy Chump’s Gain a Life StoryJuly 27, 2020UBT: ‘Shortcut to Happiness’July 22, 2020When Does the Pain Stop? (Tuesday)July 21, 2020UBT: I Was Too Much Into My Own LiesJuly 20, 2020What Did You Do With the Photos?July 17, 2020UBT: Gottman’s ‘Reviving Trust After an Affair’July 16, 2020UBT: Jada’s ‘Entanglement’July 13, 2020The Wrong Pickle and Other SinsJuly 10, 2020UBT: “Your Cheating Spouse Is the Victim, NOT You!”July 9, 2020The Kid Calls the Felon OW ‘Mama’July 8, 2020He Cheated… Everyone Feels Sorry for HimJuly 6, 2020A Declaration of Independence for ChumpsJuly 3, 2020Am I Going to Get Over This?July 2, 2020How Do You Get Past the Revulsion?July 1, 2020UBT: Affair Sex in the Marital Bed Is Wrong?June 29, 2020Chump Protagonists in TV Dramas?June 26, 2020Cheater Throws Them Out, OW Moves InJune 25, 2020He Cheated on Her Daughter. She Spackled.June 24, 2020Escape After D-Day — ‘Should I Move?’June 23, 2020‘I Trolled the Other Woman’June 22, 2020Your Triumph MomentsJune 19, 2020The LGBTQ+ Chump PerspectiveJune 17, 2020How Come No One But Chumps Seems to Get It?June 17, 2020The Walls in Your House Will SingJune 16, 2020‘I’m Afraid of Him’June 15, 2020When Is It Okay to Tell Someone STOP?June 11, 2020‘I Have a Hate in My Heart Where Love Used to Be’June 10, 2020Why Cheaters Think You Could Be Friends with Their Affair PartnerJune 9, 2020‘Maybe He Was Right About Me?’June 8, 2020Cheating Excuses and Other NonsenseJune 5, 2020He’ll Send Support If She’ll Send Naked PicturesJune 4, 2020UBT: Let’s Put Aside ‘Our Differences’ for These Special Times in Our Kids’ LivesJune 2, 2020‘I Let Him Come Over with Pizza’June 1, 2020‘My No Contact Stinks’May 28, 2020‘I Just Want My Life Back’May 27, 2020‘I Want to Blast Them on Facebook’May 26, 2020Infidelity, Divorce, Kids — How Did You Navigate It?May 22, 2020‘I Turned the Tables’May 21, 2020UBT: Mother’s Day Wishes from the OW?May 20, 2020How Do I Find the Courage to Leave?May 18, 2020Tell Me How You’re COVID-Era MightyMay 15, 2020UBT: ‘My Life Is Rich and Full’…. That’s Why I’m Stalking YouMay 13, 2020When You Need Cheater Twu Wuv to FailMay 12, 2020Mistress Is ‘Archaic’ and ‘Sexist’?May 11, 2020I’ll Be Seeing You In All the Old Familiar PlacesMay 8, 2020UBT: “You’re the One True Love of My Life”May 7, 2020He’s Sad and I Feel ResponsibleMay 6, 2020“I Need to Forgive the OW” WTF?May 5, 2020‘I Lost My Meh’May 4, 2020New Words for the Chump Condition?May 1, 2020He Says ‘I Better Behave’April 30, 2020Cheater Told Me He Loved MeApril 29, 2020Is It Okay to Give a Cheater a Second Chance and Reconcile?April 27, 2020What Kept You Stuck with a Cheater?April 24, 2020Esther Wants to Help You GrieveApril 23, 2020He Left Me. Why Won’t He Agree to a Divorce?April 22, 2020UBT: “Will Our Affair Survive the Lockdown?”April 20, 2020Coronavirus Hoovering?April 16, 2020My Sister Is the Marriage PoliceApril 15, 2020‘Other Chumps Infuriate Me’April 13, 2020Can You Imagine Being Quarantined With Your Ex?April 9, 2020I Thought That Meh Was a UnicornApril 7, 2020Is This Intense Hate Normal?April 6, 2020Do I Have to Be Friendly With My Ex?April 1, 2020Is This Cheating?March 31, 2020I’m Forced To Live with My Cheater Right NowMarch 30, 2020When This Crisis Is Over, I’m Gonna…March 27, 2020When You Work With Your ExMarch 26, 2020I Still Want Her BackMarch 25, 2020Is All This Anger Normal?March 24, 2020‘I Thought You Were Okay With It’March 23, 2020Coronavirus and Co-Parenting with FuckwitsMarch 20, 2020Is This Meh or Did I Just Give Up?March 19, 2020What Do I Do with the Phantom Pain of Abandonment?March 18, 2020New Beginning TuesdayMarch 17, 2020Did She Cheat Because She’s Bipolar?March 16, 2020Omens and PortentsMarch 13, 2020Grieving the Affair Partner and Other BSMarch 10, 2020Steal This IdeaMarch 6, 2020Did You Out Them on Social Media?March 4, 2020‘He’s a Different Person Than I Used to Know’March 2, 2020New Age Cheaters and CheaterismsFebruary 28, 2020Is He Gay? A Lost Soul?February 27, 2020Should I Write the OW?February 26, 2020Cheater Doesn’t Understand Why Partner Is Reconciling with HimFebruary 24, 2020My Toxic MIL Sends Her “Love”February 20, 2020Is Being Alone Worse Than Being with a Cheater?February 18, 2020‘Don’t Call It Snooping’February 17, 2020Soul Mates vs. Life Partner?February 13, 2020‘I’m Trying to Show Her the Guy She Fell in Love With’February 12, 2020Jesus Cheaters and Other Holy HorrorsFebruary 7, 2020My Friend Is the Marriage PoliceFebruary 6, 2020The Benevolent Other WomanFebruary 5, 2020The Infidelity Valentine’s Day Poetry ContestFebruary 3, 2020Is This What Meh Looks Like?January 30, 2020Feeling Too AvailableJanuary 28, 2020Ex In-Laws Turn Toxic Over VisitationJanuary 27, 2020Chump and Cheater Torch SongsJanuary 24, 2020He Says I’m “UnChristian” for Divorcing HimJanuary 23, 2020Nice Versus KindJanuary 22, 2020Duped for a QuarterJanuary 21, 2020How Cheap Is Your Cheater?January 17, 2020UBT: ‘It’s not all sunshine and rainbows over here’January 16, 2020‘I Work with the Other Woman’January 15, 2020‘I Fix Hearts. She Broke Mine.’January 13, 2020What Are You Doing to Combat Loneliness?January 10, 2020“People Don’t Want to be Called ‘Chump’”January 9, 2020Do I Tell Her Family Why We’re Divorced?January 7, 2020What Are You Throwing on the Virtual Bonfire?January 3, 2020STDs Don’t Define YouDecember 31, 2019Why Does My Cheating Ex Want to Be Friends?December 30, 2019Cheater Freak Christmas?December 25, 2019‘My Therapist Wants to Know How I Caused My Husband to Cheat’December 23, 2019Tell Me How You’re Mighty Holiday EditionDecember 20, 2019UBT on Guy Who Wants to Keep Both Sex Workers and His GirlfriendDecember 19, 2019‘I Can’t Trust That She Sucks’December 17, 2019UBT Responds to Ex Dictating Where Kids Can Open PresentsDecember 16, 2019‘I Feel Guilty for Leaving Him’December 12, 2019Cheater Threatens SuicideDecember 10, 2019Pick Me Dancing for LoveDecember 9, 2019Redefining IntimacyDecember 6, 2019‘None of My Choices Are Acceptable’November 25, 2019When They Cheat in Your HomeNovember 21, 2019Husband Cheated. Mother Disappointed in ‘Us’November 20, 2019When You Want to Leave, But Just Had a BabyNovember 19, 2019Called the Other Woman, Got ‘Vague’ AnswersNovember 18, 2019Did Your Pet Get You Through Your Break-Up?November 15, 2019UBT: ‘It’s Not Who I Am’November 14, 2019‘Should I Divorce Him?’November 11, 2019Are ‘Emotional Affairs’ and Texting Other Women Cheating?November 5, 2019Spending Holidays with Your Ex ‘For The Children’November 4, 2019Secret Names of Cell Phone MysteryNovember 1, 2019Dear Chump Lady, What’s my role in the breakup?October 28, 2019My Cheating Wife Left Me for Her BossOctober 24, 2019Have a Chat with Coworker Affair Partner? Just Don’t.October 22, 2019Can I Get Some Mighty Here?October 18, 2019I Can’t Kick HopiumOctober 16, 2019Her Husband Attempts SuicideOctober 15, 2019UBT: My Husband Stopped Cheating on Me After 35 YearsOctober 10, 2019Man Sues Affair Partner — And WinsOctober 7, 2019More Stupid Shit Cheaters SayOctober 4, 2019No Contact WinsSeptember 27, 20194 Things You Don’t Know About Cheating Until It Happens to YouSeptember 24, 2019Real Monkey Love, Bad Monkey LoveSeptember 20, 2019Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to organize their video chat?September 19, 2019Dear Chump Lady, Is she a cheater or a muse?September 16, 2019Therapy Fails?September 13, 2019How Do I Gain a Life Before the Divorce Is Final?September 12, 2019You Might Be a Recovered Chump If…September 6, 2019UBT: Investigative Questions for Couples Experiencing InfidelitySeptember 5, 2019My Husband Is a Marriage Counselor with a Double LifeSeptember 3, 2019When Closure Is Eaten by BearsAugust 30, 2019Thanks for Taking My Husband. No Tag Backs, OWAugust 27, 2019The Kindness of StrangersAugust 23, 2019Where Are They Now?August 16, 2019How Do I Protect My Son from His Father Disappointing Him?August 15, 2019UBT: “We Are Teachers, Not Demigods”August 13, 2019Which Came First, The Dead Marriage or the Affair?August 8, 2019Dear Chump Lady, I feel unworthyAugust 7, 2019Why Can’t I Say ‘Cheater’?August 1, 2019The Trust Bank Is BankruptJuly 31, 2019Alan Dershowitz Is Human GarbageJuly 30, 2019I Have a Young Bitter HeartJuly 29, 2019Courage FairiesJuly 26, 2019Devastating Writing on Making Your Needs SmallJuly 24, 2019Facebook Stalking Is NOT Helping You Move onJuly 23, 20196 Things Men Experience When They’re Cheated OnJuly 22, 2019Dear Chump Lady, How do I save my friend?July 18, 2019Do I Have to Invite My Ex-Wife to the Party?July 15, 2019UBT: ‘Dear Therapist’July 11, 2019Why No Contact WorksJuly 10, 2019She Changed HimJuly 9, 2019It Was ‘Just Sex’ Says CheaterJuly 3, 2019The Other Woman Is a CrossFit JunkieJuly 1, 2019When Your D-Day Is After the DivorceJune 27, 2019UBT — He Took the SoupJune 24, 2019Unspouse Your House?June 21, 2019‘Being Frank’ versus Being ChumpedJune 17, 2019My Wife Cheated with a WomanJune 13, 2019DNA Testing SurprisesJune 12, 2019Dear Chump Lady, I’m pregnant and pick me dancingJune 11, 2019Dear Chump Lady, I discovered my new friend is an OWJune 10, 2019Dear Chump Lady, He claims he still loves meJune 6, 2019UBT: The Burger-Flipping Love That Dare Not Speak Its NameJune 3, 2019Star-Crossed SchmoopiesMay 31, 2019What Do You Tell Yourself?May 28, 2019Bad ApologiesMay 24, 2019She Was ‘Going to Make It Up to Me’May 22, 2019All Those Times You Didn’t CheatMay 17, 2019Dear Chump Lady, Am I just a chump stereotype?May 16, 2019The Lies Are CrazyMay 14, 2019UBT: ProJared’s Divorce StatementMay 13, 2019When Mother’s Day SucksMay 10, 2019Do I Tell the Kids About the Cheating?May 9, 2019Way to Take Down a CheaterMay 8, 2019Rethinking the Psychologists Rethinking MonogamyMay 6, 2019Dear Chump Lady, How did he turn into a douche?May 2, 2019Dear Chump Lady, Am I the toxic one?May 1, 2019Dear Chump Lady, I feel like she traded upApril 29, 2019RIC Tag Lines?April 26, 2019Dear Chump Lady, Nobody gets being chumped (except chumps)April 25, 2019Is Betrayal ‘The Best Thing That Ever Happened to You’?April 18, 2019UBT: “The Second Mountain: The Quest for a Moral Life”April 17, 2019David Brooks Can Bite MeApril 16, 2019Dear Chump Lady, Is this weird?April 15, 2019Help, The Other Woman Is a Bunny BoilerApril 11, 2019Serenade the Universal Bullshit TranslatorApril 5, 2019UBT: “People sometimes lie or ‘forget’ to keep their promises”April 4, 2019Dear Chump Lady, He told me not to tellApril 1, 2019Bitter Bunny Dating?March 29, 2019When You Piss Off the UnicornsMarch 28, 2019Dear Chump Lady, Please be meanMarch 25, 2019Mightiness UpdateMarch 22, 2019UBT: ‘I Should Be Nice to You’March 21, 2019Soul Blazing and Navel GazingMarch 20, 2019Beware the Timid Forest CreaturesMarch 19, 2019Dear Chump Lady, The OW is the ‘Girl Next Door’March 18, 2019Be the UBTMarch 15, 2019He Wants to Leave Compassionately ‘With Closure’March 11, 2019Dear Chump Lady, I can’t get my ex’s voice out of my headMarch 4, 2019Your Heart and Your WalletMarch 1, 2019Dear Chump Lady, He moved down the streetFebruary 27, 2019Esther Perel Can Bite MeFebruary 26, 2019Got a Pep Talk?February 22, 2019My Ex Cheated with Our NannyFebruary 19, 2019When your ‘match’ is a married motivational speakerFebruary 15, 2019Playing the Victim?February 12, 2019Is Cake Better Than Abandonment?February 11, 2019Dear Chump Lady, I work with the OW and my exFebruary 7, 2019Dear Chump Lady, My ex has cancerFebruary 4, 2019Infidelity ValentinesFebruary 1, 2019Glimpses of Meh?January 25, 2019Why Can’t I Accept That He Sucks?January 23, 2019He’s Dating a Mom at Our Kid’s SchoolJanuary 22, 2019Get the F*ck Out NowJanuary 20, 2019Dear Chump Lady, He shoveled my snow, so he cares?January 16, 2019Do Cheaters All Work from the Same Script?January 15, 2019Dear Chump Lady, I’d divorce her, but she wants thatJanuary 14, 2019Dear Chump Lady, Was I THAT bad?January 9, 2019‘Why Do Cheaters Need to Punish the Chump?’January 8, 2019Dear Chump Lady, He says he cheated to protect meJanuary 7, 2019 Posts pagination Previous Page 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Next Page TweetShareSharePin
