Archives Spackle & Spackle AssociatesOctober 6, 2014The Benevolent OWOctober 3, 2014Chump KidsOctober 2, 2014How Badly Will Divorce Screw Up My Kids?October 1, 2014The Ones Who Just Leave and AbandonSeptember 29, 2014Dear Chump Lady, The OW calls me for advice!September 24, 2014Even Honey Boo Boo’s Mom Can Leave a CheaterSeptember 20, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I was okay… until he got a new boyfriendSeptember 19, 2014So What Do You Call Them?September 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, She’s having an affair with her bossSeptember 16, 2014Dreadful Cheater HolidaysSeptember 15, 2014Poor Mark SanfordSeptember 13, 2014Don’t Need It That BadSeptember 12, 2014Who Was Your Infidelity Angel?September 11, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How did you experience the stages of grief?September 10, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is this a unicorn?September 8, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m trying to divorce in India. What should I do?September 6, 2014Chump Lady Gets a LetterSeptember 5, 2014Who Gets the Friends in the Divorce?September 4, 201450 Shades of Subtle NuanceSeptember 3, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Should I divorce his cheating, Mormon ass?September 1, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My fiancé is friends with a nest of cheatersAugust 30, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Got close to meh, and then… boom.August 29, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m meeting his bitch-ass lawyerAugust 28, 2014Create Some Fake Credentials for Chump Lady!August 27, 2014Meaningless Flings and the Myth of the Good CheaterAugust 26, 2014They’re Not WaywardAugust 22, 2014Confessions of a Better Sort of CheaterAugust 21, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Did you take the drugs? Did they help?August 20, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is a “morality clause” insane?August 19, 2014Dear Chump Lady, She wants to apologize for cheating on meAugust 15, 2014A Serial Cheater’s Relationship “Advice”August 8, 2014How do I get through today?August 5, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I want the satisfaction of a confrontationAugust 2, 2014Time for More MIGHTINESSJuly 31, 2014Why Did Daddy Leave Us? Because Daddy Is an AssholeJuly 30, 2014Why Did He Come Back Only to Cheat Again?July 29, 2014Forgiveness Troll Says Take a SurveyJuly 27, 2014An Imperfect Beginning?July 25, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He never told his adult kids their mom cheatedJuly 19, 2014Beware Jesus Cheaters… There’s a New Blog in TownJuly 16, 2014Making Character Cool?July 15, 2014Is There Recovery from an Emotional Affair?July 13, 2014Am I Divorcing Too Soon?July 11, 2014If You Thought I Was That Sort of Person, You Shouldn’t Be With MeJuly 10, 2014The Pretzel Logic of the 180July 6, 2014Trapped in a Cabin with ToriJuly 5, 2014What Gift Do You Give a Cheater?July 2, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I have to paternity check my kidsJuly 1, 2014Reconciliation — What did you try? What did you buy?June 29, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m dating a ‘cheater apologist’June 29, 2014The Chump Cloak of InvisibilityJune 27, 2014The Fog Comes Softly on Little Cheater FeetJune 24, 2014My Cheater Is an Eagle ScoutJune 23, 2014Yes I Am a ChumpJune 20, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My ex-husband and my father are both cheatersJune 18, 2014Real Love. The Antidote to Douchieness.June 17, 2014Woe! “Marriage is a bed sheet that can never be straightened.”June 17, 2014Who Did You Become While Married to a Cheater?June 15, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Abandoned while pregnant, should he pay support?June 13, 2014Reconciliation from His Emotional Affair Is Not WorkingJune 11, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I suspect an affairJune 8, 2014The Exceedingly Un-special Tori SpellingJune 6, 2014Men Cheat Because Women ‘Feminize’ Them Says IdiotJune 5, 2014Did the Tree of Karma Fall on Your Cheater?June 4, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He doesn’t want me, so why hold up the divorce?June 3, 2014Over Sharing and ChumpdomMay 31, 2014When Tattooing His Penis Just Isn’t EnoughMay 30, 2014How to Say No and Stop Being a ChumpMay 29, 2014When Splendid People CheatMay 22, 2014“How Affairs Make My Marriage Stronger”May 21, 2014I Don’t Feel the Need to Give It AwayMay 17, 2014How Did You Find Out About the Cheating?May 16, 2014Why Women Cheat?May 14, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Why won’t she give up?May 13, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Why am I stuck?May 12, 2014Dear Chump Lady, What’s your take on religious OW?May 10, 2014Shame! It’s Like an Icepick through Your Head!May 7, 2014All the Good Ones Are GoneMay 6, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Why do I think my marriage still has a shot… when it doesn’t?May 3, 2014Infidelity Triggers: What Are You Taking Back?May 2, 2014Should I Take Back Sparkles the Dry-Drunk Unicorn?May 1, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to tolerate the OM around my kids?April 30, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Sympathy for the OW?April 24, 2014Cyberstalking, Bullies, and CensorshipApril 23, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My kids have never met the OWApril 22, 2014When Unicorns Meet Ashley Madison…April 20, 2014The Forgiveness TrollsApril 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I wish I’d filedApril 18, 2014Translating Other Woman-eseApril 17, 2014So Sad When Cheater Loves Goes BadApril 16, 2014Stupidest Blameshifting You Got?April 15, 2014Why You Can’t “Nice” People Out of AffairsApril 14, 2014Dear Chump Lady, The OW is cyberstalking meApril 13, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is he a cheater?April 12, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My husband doesn’t know the OW ratted him outApril 11, 2014Apologize to Your Cheating Husband, Says Andrew G MarshallApril 10, 2014Jesus Cheaters in the NewsApril 8, 2014Translating Cheater-eseApril 7, 2014What Does a Good Relationship Look Like?April 3, 2014Good Shrink, Bad ShrinkApril 2, 2014Sing Like a Bird?April 1, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I have cancer. But the OW “suffers.”March 30, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Do I get revenge through the media?March 28, 2014Gwyneth Paltrow Can Bite MeMarch 27, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Son wants me to be friends with my exMarch 26, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I still want to call himMarch 25, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep them from picking me?March 24, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He says my insecurity made him cheatMarch 23, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Maybe I was a bad wife?March 21, 2014Cheap Shit Cheaters DoMarch 20, 2014Cosmic Signs You’re a ChumpMarch 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I feel guilty for divorcing herMarch 17, 2014Visiting UnicornsMarch 13, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I think my story is unique…March 12, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Unicorns are realMarch 10, 2014I’m afraid I’m going to grow old alone with catsMarch 9, 2014The Hail Mary Play for KibblesMarch 6, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He left to go “find himself”March 5, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m the OW and I’m pregnantMarch 4, 2014How do I ever trust again?March 2, 2014Talent and FuckupednessFebruary 26, 2014Love Without RespectFebruary 25, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I just can’t seem to pull the plugFebruary 24, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Can I pull a prank on the OW for revenge?February 22, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He says it was just sextingFebruary 21, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How do I get to “meh” in a world full of cheaters?February 20, 2014Dear Chump Lady, The kids are starting to ask questionsFebruary 19, 2014Infidelity ScienceFebruary 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My soon-to-be-ex wants to take a family vacation togetherFebruary 16, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How can I get my friend to stop being a chump?February 15, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Now that I’m done, he’s “ill”February 7, 2014My ex is a fuck up. I don’t want my kids to be fuck ups too.February 6, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m still angryFebruary 2, 2014The Second Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day ContestJanuary 31, 2014A New Interview with Dr. George SimonJanuary 28, 2014NarklesJanuary 27, 2014Dear Chump Lady, What did I do to make her leave me?January 26, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How do I survive day to day?January 24, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m confused, well sortaJanuary 23, 2014Chump Lady’s Thoughts about ReconciliationJanuary 22, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m just the dog sitterJanuary 22, 2014The Affliction of Being Single vs. Stand By Your ManJanuary 21, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m not a lesbianJanuary 20, 2014Why I Can’t Care About Philandering French PresidentsJanuary 19, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My son keeps confronting his cheating fatherJanuary 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He’s threatening me with defamation of characterJanuary 17, 2014Tell Me How You’re MightyJanuary 14, 2014I’m a People Pleaser When DatingJanuary 14, 2014Escape TipsJanuary 13, 2014Going No Contact. And Staying No Contact.January 10, 2014She Just Discovered Her Girlfriend Is MarriedJanuary 9, 2014When Cheaters Give Infidelity AdviceJanuary 7, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I made a fool out of myselfJanuary 5, 2014The Cheating Had ‘Nothing to Do with Me’January 3, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is he a decent man with a series of unfortunate events?December 31, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How do I deal with the folks who believe the disordered person?December 30, 2013How to Quit ThingsDecember 26, 2013On the First Day of Christmas My Cheater Freak Gave to Me…December 21, 2013Dear Chump Lady, He has a problem with women… but he’s working on itDecember 20, 2013Dear Chump Lady, What do I do with the presents?December 19, 2013I Demand an ApologyDecember 18, 2013Reconsider Me? No, Please Don’tDecember 17, 2013Where Did Chump Lady Come From?December 16, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m so mad at myselfDecember 15, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is there a middle path?December 13, 2013Freak of the WeekDecember 11, 2013Naming ItDecember 10, 2013Dear Chump Lady, It’s my D-Day AnniversaryDecember 9, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Am I a chump for believing they were “just friends”?December 9, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m not finding peaceDecember 4, 2013What Is Poofing?December 2, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Bye Bye CheaterNovember 26, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m the OW. Do I give his wife the details?November 25, 2013A Better Class of Cheater?November 22, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I feel like a sell outNovember 20, 2013Dear Chump Lady, She knew cheating was a deal breaker…November 19, 2013What NOT to Say to a Friend Who’s Been Cheated onNovember 18, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Gifts for my cheating ex from the kids?November 17, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is there a deeper reason behind cheating?November 13, 2013The Holiday Season and ChumpdomNovember 12, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Hysterical bonding… WTF?!November 11, 2013When does it get better?November 10, 2013Cheater StoriesNovember 8, 2013The “Upside” of InfidelityNovember 6, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I never exposed his affairNovember 5, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I know exactly what to do. I can’t seem to do it.November 3, 2013Do I Tell His Wife I Was Cheating with Her Husband?November 2, 2013She’s a Home WreckerNovember 1, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Will anyone get it?October 31, 2013What Is This ‘Meh’ You Speak of?October 29, 2013This Is What Deadbeat Parents MissOctober 24, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is it possible to be too meh?October 23, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Did I do a bad thing?October 22, 2013In Praise of Good MenOctober 18, 20137 Reasons I Don’t Accept Rielle Hunter’s ApologyOctober 15, 2013Dear Chump Lady, What do I say?October 15, 2013A Polyamorist Speaks OutOctober 14, 2013Did you have a defining moment?October 10, 2013It Takes Three?October 7, 2013Standing on LiesOctober 7, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Any advice for a new chump?October 5, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Can “meh” exist for a unicorn?October 3, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Am I guilty of splitting too?October 3, 2013Love, the All-Purpose SpackleOctober 2, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m ready to date. Now what?October 1, 2013Dear Chump Lady, My friend is an OWSeptember 27, 2013Why Does It Feel Like He’s Better Than Me?September 26, 2013A Message of Hope from a Fellow ChumpSeptember 25, 2013Cheating Is a Lot Like Obesity? WTF?September 24, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I can’t leave the cake eaterSeptember 23, 2013Dear Chump Lady, OW gives my kid ‘Grand Theft Auto’September 22, 2013Dear Chump Lady, What do you tell a 2-year old?September 19, 2013Divorce Party, What Do You Think?September 17, 2013Early Wing Nut Warning SignsSeptember 12, 2013Dear Chump Lady, No one seems to know we’ve broken upSeptember 11, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Should I push for full custody?September 10, 2013How to Escape a NarcissistSeptember 9, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Should I hold out for more money?September 7, 2013Dear Chump Lady, When can I tell my in-laws the truth?September 5, 2013So What Have You Done for YOU Lately?September 3, 2013Dear Chump Lady, May I sext?August 31, 2013Technology and CheatingAugust 30, 2013Dear Chump Lady, He says it was just a “game”August 29, 2013Oops, I Slept With Your BoyfriendAugust 28, 2013The ‘Anti-Cheating Ring’August 25, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Can you cheat a cheater?August 24, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Can I date yet?August 23, 2013Dear Chump Lady, My ex-husband is on Match.comAugust 22, 2013We Both Love YouAugust 21, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I can’t meet him halfway…. literallyAugust 19, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I Live in LimboAugust 14, 2013Should I Give Him Time to Change?August 6, 2013Weiner Word SaladJuly 30, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I want to rescue my friendJuly 29, 2013Dear Chump Lady, A home security system? WTF?July 28, 2013Want to Leave, But I’m Trapped FinanciallyJuly 26, 2013Oh hey! I know that mindfuck!July 26, 2013A Letter to HumaJuly 23, 2013Should I Fire My Cheater Employee?July 23, 2013He Wants His Cheating Wife to Feel His PainJuly 21, 2013Reconciliation and EntitlementJuly 19, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Parental alienation and teenagers?July 16, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Got any happy stories?July 14, 2013Charles Saatchi: A Master MindfuckerJuly 7, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Do I tell what she’s done?July 4, 2013Dear Chump Lady, My mom is friends with my cheating exJuly 2, 2013The Doctor Is a Quack!June 28, 2013Warning SignalsJune 20, 2013Kissing Your AbuserJune 18, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Please decode the cakeJune 17, 2013She Cheated at the Start of the MarriageJune 10, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How can I get my mom to leave my cheater dad?June 7, 2013Why Is No Contact So Hard?May 30, 2013How To Leave a Scary PersonMay 15, 2013She Thought Her Cheating Boyfriend Was Her ‘Best Friend’May 3, 2013Paula Broadwell Forgives HerselfMay 2, 2013Stay Married to a Cheater… by LawMay 1, 2013Showcase a Narcissist! Mark SanfordApril 24, 2013Cheating Doesn’t Look Like LoveApril 10, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is “Meh” forgiveness?April 9, 2013The Compassion from a Cheater TrapApril 7, 2013Is Sexless Marriage a Cheater Excuse?March 27, 2013Carolyn Hax Gives Dreadful Infidelity Advice… AgainMarch 26, 2013Does He Really Love the Other Woman?March 21, 2013When Narcissists Get ChumpedMarch 12, 2013The Last Good Deed of Ed MurphyMarch 11, 2013Did My Cheating Girlfriend Want to Get Caught?March 5, 2013Don’t Reason with a NarcissistMarch 4, 2013Chump Lady vs. Betrayed Wives ClubMarch 1, 2013Is Infidelity Abuse? Chump Lady vs. Vicki LarsonFebruary 28, 2013What About the One-Time Cheater Who Leaves?February 26, 2013Homewrecker and Proud?February 15, 2013Why Are People Still Friends with the Cheater?February 13, 2013Infidelity Valentine’s ContestFebruary 7, 2013Don’t Throw Stones at Tiffany Glass WindowsFebruary 3, 2013No Contact Is Killing MeFebruary 1, 2013Do I Have to Coparent with the Affair Partner?January 22, 2013Should I Go After Child Support?January 13, 2013The Other Woman Still Wants Her HusbandJanuary 11, 2013A New Monogamy? No Thanks, Tammy NelsonJanuary 10, 2013What’s Inside the Mind of the Other Woman?January 8, 2013The Cheater Forgiveness ImperativeJanuary 4, 2013When the Cheater Needs ‘More Time’ to DecideDecember 20, 2012How Could I Have Avoided Being the Other Woman?December 19, 2012Near BeginningsDecember 16, 2012When the Cheater Has a Personal EpiphanyDecember 13, 2012Do It for the ChildrenDecember 12, 2012The Psychopath TestDecember 2, 2012My Useless Masters Degree in African History Explains InfidelityNovember 29, 2012Why Am I Still Having Sex with My Ex?November 11, 2012Batshit Crazy Mistress Brings Down CIA DirectorNovember 10, 2012The Brain Science of Unpredictable LoveNovember 5, 2012The Other Woman Defends Cheating as ‘Just Sex’September 28, 2012How to Get Revenge on a CheaterSeptember 21, 2012What If My Cheating Wife Comes Back?September 14, 20123 Ways to Move On After DivorceAugust 24, 2012He Cheated, But What About Breaking Her Vows?August 2, 2012The Trap of the False EquivalencyJuly 29, 2012Why Do Cheaters Get Married?July 12, 2012 Posts pagination Previous Page 1 … 5 6 7 8 9 Next Page TweetShareSharePin
