Archives Potty Mouth DayMay 24, 2014When Splendid People CheatMay 22, 2014“How Affairs Make My Marriage Stronger”May 21, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Are these red flags?May 20, 2014How Do You Trust Again?May 18, 2014I Don’t Feel the Need to Give It AwayMay 17, 2014How Did You Find Out?May 16, 2014Why Women Cheat?May 14, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Why won’t she give up?May 13, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Why am I stuck?May 12, 2014Dear Chump Lady, What’s your take on religious OW?May 10, 2014Shame! It’s Like an Icepick through Your Head!May 7, 2014All the Good Ones Are GoneMay 6, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Why do I think my marriage still has a shot… when it doesn’t?May 3, 2014What Are You Taking Back?May 2, 2014Should I Take Back Sparkles the Dry-Drunk Unicorn?May 1, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to tolerate the OM around my kids?April 30, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is it wrong to have feelings for my friend’s wife?April 28, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Sympathy for the OW?April 24, 2014Cyberstalking, Bullies, and CensorshipApril 23, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My kids have never met the OWApril 22, 2014When Unicorns Meet Ashley Madison…April 20, 2014The Forgiveness TrollsApril 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I wish I’d filedApril 18, 2014Translating Other Woman-eseApril 17, 2014So Sad When Cheater Loves Goes BadApril 16, 2014Stupidest Blameshifting You Got?April 15, 2014Why You Can’t “Nice” People Out of AffairsApril 14, 2014Dear Chump Lady, The OW is cyberstalking meApril 13, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is he a cheater?April 12, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My husband doesn’t know the OW ratted him outApril 11, 2014Apologize to Your Cheating Husband, Says QuackApril 10, 2014Jesus Cheaters in the NewsApril 8, 2014Translating Cheater-eseApril 7, 2014What Does a Good Relationship Look Like?April 3, 2014Good Shrink, Bad ShrinkApril 2, 2014Sing Like a Bird?April 1, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I have cancer. But the OW “suffers.”March 30, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Do I get revenge through the media?March 28, 2014Gwyneth Paltrow Can Bite MeMarch 27, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Son wants me to be friends with my exMarch 26, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I still want to call himMarch 25, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How do I keep them from picking me?March 24, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He says my insecurity made him cheatMarch 23, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Maybe I was a bad wife?March 21, 2014Cheap Shit Cheaters DoMarch 20, 2014Cosmic Signs You’re a ChumpMarch 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I feel guilty for divorcing herMarch 17, 2014I Discovered My Boyfriend Was a Cheater After He DiedMarch 15, 2014Visiting UnicornsMarch 13, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I think my story is unique…March 12, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Unicorns are realMarch 10, 2014I’m afraid I’m going to grow old alone with catsMarch 9, 2014The Hail Mary Play for KibblesMarch 6, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He left to go “find himself”March 5, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m the OW and I’m pregnantMarch 4, 2014How do I ever trust again?March 2, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Should I reach out to his ex-wife?March 1, 2014Talent and FuckupednessFebruary 26, 2014Love Without RespectFebruary 25, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I just can’t seem to pull the plugFebruary 24, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Can I pull a prank on the OW for revenge?February 22, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He says it was just sextingFebruary 21, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How do I get to “meh” in a world full of cheaters?February 20, 2014Dear Chump Lady, The kids are starting to ask questionsFebruary 19, 2014Infidelity ScienceFebruary 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My soon-to-be-ex wants to take a family vacation togetherFebruary 16, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How can I get my friend to stop being a chump?February 15, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Am I the Only One?February 13, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Now that I’m done, he’s “ill”February 7, 2014My ex is a fuck up. I don’t want my kids to be fuck ups too.February 6, 2014Making the Marriage a ‘Good Place to Be’ and Other Reconciliation BlameshiftingFebruary 3, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m still angryFebruary 2, 2014The Second Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day ContestJanuary 31, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Please explain the paralysisJanuary 30, 2014A New Interview with Dr. George SimonJanuary 28, 2014Narcissist DadsJanuary 28, 2014NarklesJanuary 27, 2014Dear Chump Lady, What did I do to make her leave me?January 26, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How do I survive day to day?January 24, 2014Chump Lady’s Conspiracy Theory on Divorce ShameJanuary 24, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m confused, well sortaJanuary 23, 2014Chump Lady’s Thoughts about ReconciliationJanuary 22, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m just the dog sitterJanuary 22, 2014The Affliction of Being Single vs. Stand By Your ManJanuary 21, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m not a lesbianJanuary 20, 2014Why I Can’t Care About Philandering French PresidentsJanuary 19, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My son keeps confronting his cheating fatherJanuary 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He’s threatening me with defamation of characterJanuary 17, 2014Tell Me How You’re MightyJanuary 14, 2014I’m a People Pleaser When DatingJanuary 14, 2014Escape TipsJanuary 13, 2014How Do I Forgive Myself for Staying with a Sex Addict?January 12, 2014Going No Contact. And Staying No Contact.January 10, 2014She’s a cake eater. And gay.January 9, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is the OW a Dominatrix?January 8, 2014When Cheaters Give Infidelity AdviceJanuary 7, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I made a fool out of myselfJanuary 5, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He says the cheating had ‘nothing to do with me’January 3, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is he a decent man with a series of unfortunate events?December 31, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How do I deal with the folks who believe the disordered person?December 30, 2013How to Quit ThingsDecember 26, 2013On the First Day of Christmas My Cheater Freak Gave to Me…December 21, 2013Dear Chump Lady, He has a problem with women… but he’s working on itDecember 20, 2013Dear Chump Lady, What do I do with the presents?December 19, 2013I Demand an ApologyDecember 18, 2013Reconsider Me? No, Please Don’tDecember 17, 2013Where Did Chump Lady Come From?December 16, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m so mad at myselfDecember 15, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is there a middle path?December 13, 2013Freak of the WeekDecember 11, 2013Naming ItDecember 10, 2013Dear Chump Lady, It’s my D-Day AnniversaryDecember 9, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Am I a chump for believing they were “just friends”?December 9, 2013When ‘Good People’ Have AffairsDecember 7, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Sex after divorce?December 5, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m not finding peaceDecember 4, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Explain “poofing”December 2, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I can’t kick hopeNovember 27, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Bye Bye CheaterNovember 26, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m the OW. Do I give his wife the details?November 25, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over the Other Woman?November 24, 2013A Better Class of Cheater?November 22, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I feel like a sell outNovember 20, 2013Dear Chump Lady, She knew cheating was a deal breaker…November 19, 2013What NOT to Say to a Friend Who’s Been Cheated onNovember 18, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Gifts for my cheating ex from the kids?November 17, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is there a deeper reason behind cheating?November 13, 2013The Holiday Season and ChumpdomNovember 12, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Hysterical bonding… WTF?!November 11, 2013When does it get better?November 10, 2013Cheater StoriesNovember 8, 2013The “Upside” of InfidelityNovember 6, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I never exposed his affairNovember 5, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I know exactly what to do. I can’t seem to do it.November 3, 2013Do I Tell His Wife I Was Cheating with Her Husband?November 2, 2013She’s a Home WreckerNovember 1, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Will anyone get it?October 31, 2013What Is This ‘Meh’ You Speak of?October 29, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Should I give him another chance?October 28, 2013Chump Dating QuestionnaireOctober 26, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Do you believe in romantic love?October 25, 2013This Is What You Missed, You IdiotOctober 24, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is it possible to be too meh?October 23, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Did I do a bad thing?October 22, 2013In Praise of Good MenOctober 18, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How can I trust my cheater again?October 17, 20137 Reasons I Don’t Accept Rielle Hunter’s ApologyOctober 15, 2013Dear Chump Lady, What do I say?October 15, 2013A Polyamorist Speaks OutOctober 14, 2013Did you have a defining moment?October 10, 2013It Takes Three?October 7, 2013Standing on LiesOctober 7, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Any advice for a new chump?October 5, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Can “meh” exist for a unicorn?October 3, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Am I guilty of splitting too?October 3, 2013Love, the All-Purpose SpackleOctober 2, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m ready to date. Now what?October 1, 2013Dear Chump Lady, My friend is an OWSeptember 27, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Why does it feel like he’s better than me?September 26, 2013A Message of Hope from a Fellow ChumpSeptember 25, 2013Cheating Is a Lot Like Obesity? WTF?September 24, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I can’t leave the cake eaterSeptember 23, 2013Dear Chump Lady, OW gives my kid ‘Grand Theft Auto’September 22, 2013Best Curses ContestSeptember 20, 2013Dear Chump Lady, What do you tell a 2-year old?September 19, 2013Divorce Party, What Do You Think?September 17, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Should I tell his wife?September 16, 2013What’s the Stupidest Lie You Bought?September 13, 2013Early Wing Nut Warning SignsSeptember 12, 2013Dear Chump Lady, No one seems to know we’ve broken upSeptember 11, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Should I push for full custody?September 10, 2013How to Escape a NarcissistSeptember 9, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Should I hold out for more money?September 7, 2013Dear Chump Lady, When can I tell my in-laws the truth?September 5, 2013So What Have You Done for YOU Lately?September 3, 2013Your Best ResentmentsSeptember 1, 2013Dear Chump Lady, May I sext?August 31, 2013Technology and CheatingAugust 30, 2013Dear Chump Lady, He says it was just a “game”August 29, 2013Oops, I Slept With Your BoyfriendAugust 28, 2013The ‘Anti-Cheating Ring’August 25, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Can you cheat a cheater?August 24, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Can I date yet?August 23, 2013Dear Chump Lady, My ex-husband is on Match.comAugust 22, 2013We Both Love YouAugust 21, 2013Hurt People Hurt People and Other BullshitAugust 20, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I can’t meet him halfway…. literallyAugust 19, 2013Dear Chump Lady, The AP wants my friendsAugust 17, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I Live in LimboAugust 14, 2013Dear Chump Lady, He wants to be FRIENDS?August 13, 2013Dear Chump Lady, The OW is ChineseAugust 12, 2013Should I Give Him Time to Change?August 6, 2013Cheaters and Misogyny/MisandryAugust 5, 2013A Chump’s Cautionary TaleAugust 3, 2013Dear Chump Lady, My cheating wife is a SAHMAugust 2, 2013An Inspiring Chump LetterJuly 31, 2013Weiner Word SaladJuly 30, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m second guessing myselfJuly 30, 2013The Unending Punishment of Breeding with a FucktardJuly 29, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I want to rescue my friendJuly 29, 2013Dear Chump Lady, A home security system? WTF?July 28, 2013Want to Leave, But I’m Trapped FinanciallyJuly 26, 2013Oh hey! I know that mindfuck!July 26, 2013A Letter to HumaJuly 23, 2013Should I Fire My Cheater Employee?July 23, 2013He Wants His Cheating Wife to Feel His PainJuly 21, 2013Reconciliation and EntitlementJuly 19, 2013Dear Chump Lady, I’m obsessed with the other womanJuly 18, 2013Dear Chump Lady, My wife won’t go to counselingJuly 17, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Parental alienation and teenagers?July 16, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Help me get my bad ass backJuly 15, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Got any happy stories?July 14, 2013Musings on Giving a ShitJuly 11, 2013Dear Chump Lady, He coulda been a contenderJuly 7, 2013A Master MindfuckerJuly 7, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Do I tell what she’s done?July 4, 2013Dear Chump Lady, My mom is friends with my cheating exJuly 2, 2013The Doctor Is a Quack!June 28, 2013Dear Chump Lady, The OW means nothing to him. The OW means everything to him.June 27, 2013Is Sex with My Ex a Bad Idea?June 26, 2013Don’t Be BitterJune 25, 2013Got a Revenge Story?June 24, 2013Your Beautiful, Beautiful BrokennessJune 23, 2013Warning SignalsJune 20, 2013Kissing Your AbuserJune 18, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Please decode the cakeJune 17, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Happy Father’s Day. Or else.June 15, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Where’s my Meh?June 13, 2013Write a Dating Profile for Your ExJune 11, 2013Dear Chump Lady, She cheated 49 days into our marriage. WTF?June 10, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How can I get my mom to leave my cheater dad?June 7, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is No Contact the Only Way?June 3, 2013How to Go No ContactMay 31, 2013Why Is No Contact So Hard?May 30, 2013Kick Fear in the Ass and Laugh at Its HaircutMay 28, 2013Stupid Shit Pat Robertson SaysMay 21, 2013Dear Chump Lady, The dreaded unicorns are trying to pull me backMay 20, 2013How To Leave a Scary PersonMay 15, 2013A Public Service Announcement for ChumpsMay 14, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How do I know what kind of person he is?May 13, 2013Types of Affair PartnersMay 7, 2013Dear Chump Lady, He was my *best friend* — Now what?May 3, 2013Paula Broadwell Forgives HerselfMay 2, 2013Stay Married to a Cheater… by LawMay 1, 2013Brushes with SociopathsApril 30, 2013Therapist Calls Sex Addiction a ‘Blessing’April 26, 2013Showcase a Narcissist! Mark SanfordApril 24, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Are all chumps created equal?April 21, 2013Dear Chump Lady, What do I tell my 3-year old?April 18, 2013Stupid Shit Other People SayApril 17, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Why won’t he admit it?April 16, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How do open up again emotionally?April 13, 2013Rethinking InfidelityApril 12, 2013Sure Doesn’t Look Like Love…April 10, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is “Meh” forgiveness?April 9, 2013The Compassion TrapApril 7, 2013Cheating on the Pregnant, and Other Acts of AbandonmentApril 1, 2013Dear Chump Lady, What if they never really had sex?March 28, 2013Get a LifeMarch 28, 2013Is Sexless Marriage a Cheater Excuse?March 27, 2013Carolyn Hax Gives Dreadful Infidelity Advice… AgainMarch 26, 2013Grieving the Affair Partner, Don’t Make Any Decisions! and Other NonsenseMarch 23, 2013Does He Really Love the Other Woman?March 21, 2013Dear Chump Lady, What do I do about the RAGE?March 20, 2013How to Deal When Your Ex Married the Affair PartnerMarch 15, 2013When Narcissists Get ChumpedMarch 12, 2013The Last Good Deed of Ed MurphyMarch 11, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How long must I be paranoid?March 6, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Is She Just a Fuck Up?March 5, 2013Don’t Reason with a NarcissistMarch 4, 2013Boundaries. Does anyone have them?March 3, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Not everyone who reconciles is patheticMarch 1, 2013Infidelity *Is* AbuseFebruary 28, 2013Dear Chump Lady, My cheater promises to live like a “dog in a cage”February 27, 2013What About the One-Time Cheater Who Leaves?February 26, 2013I’m Angry at Those Who Knew About My Husband’s CheatingFebruary 25, 2013Other Man Asks Chump Lady to Write for Affair PartnersFebruary 23, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How do I get past approval seeking?February 22, 2013Stupid Cheater MomentsFebruary 21, 2013The very bad, no good infidelity advice you should reject… spit on… then set alight… and stomp onFebruary 18, 2013Homewrecker and Proud?February 15, 2013Why Are People Still Friends with the Cheater?February 13, 2013Dear Chump Lady, He’s been two-timing me… and herFebruary 10, 2013Infidelity Valentine’s ContestFebruary 7, 2013If You’re Really Sorry, Cheaters? Let Me Help YouFebruary 7, 2013Don’t Throw Stones at Tiffany Glass WindowsFebruary 3, 2013No Contact Is Killing MeFebruary 1, 2013Don’t Get Chumped Again, Part OneJanuary 29, 2013Do I Have to Coparent with the Affair Partner?January 22, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Any advice for the spineless?January 21, 2013Owning Your ChumpinessJanuary 16, 2013Dear Chump Lady, How do you define cheating?January 15, 2013Healing from Infidelity as Competitive SportJanuary 13, 2013Dear Chump Lady, Should I go after child support?January 13, 2013The Other Woman Still Wants Her HusbandJanuary 11, 2013A New Monogamy? No Thanks, Tammy NelsonJanuary 10, 2013A letter from a child of a cheater — Don’t stay togetherJanuary 9, 2013What’s Inside the Mind of the Other Woman?January 8, 2013Why Do Cheaters Cry? And Why Do We Fall for It?January 6, 2013 Posts navigation Previous Page 1 … 5 6 7 8 9 Next Page TweetShareSharePin
The very bad, no good infidelity advice you should reject… spit on… then set alight… and stomp onFebruary 18, 2013