Archives UBT: ‘Accept My Truth’October 27, 2021Is Sexting Cheating?October 25, 2021Worst of the Flying Monkeys?October 22, 2021He’s Back After ‘Ending It’ with OWOctober 21, 2021What If He Changes for the Next One?October 20, 2021No Family and Feeling AloneOctober 19, 2021Abandoned, She Discovered His Secret Sex Circus LifeOctober 14, 2021UBT: How to Get Proof They’re CheatingOctober 13, 2021Friends Disapprove of Her DivorceOctober 12, 2021Cell Phone Names for FWsOctober 8, 2021I Unfriended HimOctober 7, 2021New Boyfriend Says She’s ‘Playing the Victim’October 5, 2021‘Weaponized Incompetence’October 1, 2021‘I Still Have Nightmares About Her’September 30, 2021She Wants Me to ‘Fight For Her’September 29, 2021‘I’ve Never Broken Up with Anyone’September 28, 2021Infidelity Is Abuse: DiscussSeptember 24, 2021UBT: Brene Brown with Esther PerelSeptember 23, 2021The Other Man Wants to Come to Mom’s FuneralSeptember 22, 2021The Crying of Gabby PetitoSeptember 21, 2021UBT: ‘I Am Feeling Sad About This’September 20, 2021D-Day Anniversary Benchmarks?September 17, 2021Love Is Not a Weakness, It’s a GiftSeptember 15, 2021Mother-in-Law Says: ‘Let Girlfriend Take Over’September 14, 2021How the Hell Can I Live with Him Until I Can Get Him Out?September 13, 2021More Snappy Answers to Chumpy QuestionsSeptember 9, 2021Is This Hoovering?September 8, 2021Maybe He’ll See What He’s MissingSeptember 7, 2021Tell Me How You’re Mighty Pandemic Edition 3.0September 3, 2021Ex Tells People She’s ‘Liberated from a Loveless Marriage’September 2, 2021Need CN’s Powerful Words of SupportSeptember 1, 2021UBT: I Know My TruthAugust 31, 2021Bitch Cookie: ‘He Doesn’t Blame Me’August 30, 2021‘Bagged Salad’ and Other ExcusesAugust 27, 2021UBT: My Husband’s Craigslist AdAugust 26, 2021The ‘Dual Accountability’ Therapy FallacyAugust 25, 2021Was Anything Real?August 23, 2021Rituals for New Lives?August 20, 2021How to Be Mighty at a WeddingAugust 19, 2021Do I Have to Forgive Him?August 17, 2021UBT: The Mayo ClinicAugust 16, 2021Rewrite Your Story?August 13, 2021His Double Life Was Revealed After DeathAugust 12, 2021He Doesn’t Know If He’ll Come HomeAugust 10, 2021Why Do Affair Partners Stalk Chumps?August 9, 2021Support in Unexpected Places?August 6, 2021The Other Woman Was a ‘Best Friend’August 5, 2021UBT: “Thank You for Always Being There”August 2, 2021Your Best Detective Skills?July 30, 2021How Do I Set Boundaries with My Kids About My Ex?July 29, 2021He Took the OW on VacationJuly 28, 2021Financial Freedom from a FWJuly 27, 2021Is ‘Bum-Bum’ a Friend?July 26, 2021Rocking the No ContactJuly 23, 2021Idolized, Devalued and DumpedJuly 22, 2021UBT: “I Made a Mistake”July 21, 2021What Meh Feels LikeJuly 20, 2021Rubberneckers and the Remarriage of an ExJuly 19, 2021Leave a Cheater, Adopt a DogJuly 16, 2021Am I the Jerk for Wanting to Leave?July 15, 2021Where Are All the Single, Available Men?July 13, 2021Caught Him Cheating on the DoggyCamJuly 12, 2021I Need You Like A….?July 9, 2021UBT: “I Needed You So Much”July 8, 2021Debunking “Affairs Are About Opportunity”July 7, 20213 Chumped Women Expose Army Lt. Col. with Double LifeJuly 6, 2021A Chump Declaration of IndependenceJuly 5, 2021Most Psycho Reaction to Being Busted?July 2, 2021How Do I Stop Comparing Myself to the Other Woman?July 1, 2021He Doesn’t Hoover, He RagesJune 30, 2021My Boyfriend Cheating and Gave Me an STDJune 29, 2021Matt Hancock, BustedJune 28, 2021Reframe ItJune 24, 2021Ben Zobrist, Chumped But Not DownJune 24, 2021Why Can’t I Get Them Out of My Head?June 22, 2021UBT: The Couple BubbleJune 21, 2021Leave a Cheater, Change Your SurroundingsJune 18, 2021Kick Me Out of My FunkJune 17, 2021Why Does He Keep Changing His Mind About Reconciliation?June 16, 2021Snappy Answers to Chumpy QuestionsJune 15, 2021Jeffrey Toobin’s Non-Apology ApologyJune 14, 2021Were You Love Bombed?June 11, 2021Chump Lady Defends Her Potty MouthJune 10, 2021Ethical Non-Monogamy Was a BustJune 9, 2021What Makes the New Guy Better?June 8, 2021Years Later and No ‘Meh’June 7, 2021How Do I Get Over My Envy?June 3, 2021Should I Send a Father’s Day Card?June 2, 2021UBT: We Are All ComplexJune 1, 2021Cheating on a Marine? Don’t Ask Ms. VickiMay 31, 2021The ‘Only One Who Really Cares’?May 25, 2021He’s Sorry He Got CaughtMay 24, 2021Stupid Stuff Cake Eaters SayMay 21, 2021My Best Friend Is an Affair PersonMay 20, 2021The Bill and Melinda Gates DivorceMay 18, 2021UBT: Our Relationship Is Over, I SupposeMay 17, 2021Be Your Own UBTMay 14, 2021How Do I Ward Off Emotional Vampires?May 13, 2021I Keep Getting Messages He’s Having an AffairMay 12, 2021I Don’t Feel Mighty. I Got Left.May 11, 2021Meeting the OW for the First TimeMay 10, 2021What Did You Think You Couldn’t Do That You CAN Do?May 7, 2021Is He a Unicorn or a Narcissist?May 5, 2021It Took Balls to Cheat on Him?May 3, 2021No Contact Fails — The Blooper ReelApril 30, 2021Why Does He Hate Me?April 29, 2021Her Menopause Made Him Cheat?April 28, 2021UBT: Inform Me About Your GirlfriendApril 26, 2021Je viens de découvrir que j’ai été trompée. Je fais quoi maintenant?April 25, 2021Ce qu’il ne faut pas faireApril 25, 2021¿Es este un remordimiento real? ¿O un remordimiento de imitación de cuerina legitima?April 25, 2021La reconciliación y las concesionesApril 25, 2021La riconciliazione con una Timida Creatura del BoscoApril 25, 2021La teoria unificata della Botte PienaApril 25, 2021Croccantini per l’EgoApril 25, 2021L’umiliante danza dello “Scegli Me” !April 25, 2021Espectro de Personas InfielesApril 25, 2021Tell Me How You’re Mighty, Pandemic Edition Whatever Day This IsApril 23, 2021Are These Red Flags?April 22, 2021He’s Having a Baby with the Other WomanApril 21, 2021Leave a Cheater, Gain a HarleyApril 20, 2021Second Guessing Yourself About LeavingApril 19, 2021How Are You Changing the Narrative?April 16, 2021I Want My Cheating Wife to Read Your BookApril 15, 2021UBT: Gina Frangello, Blow Your House DownApril 14, 2021He’s ‘Saving’ the Other WomanApril 12, 2021Is He Winning?April 9, 2021Is Limerence a Thing?April 6, 2021It Was a ‘One-Off’ — Let It Go?April 5, 2021Infidelity EuphemismsApril 2, 2021Boris Johnson’s Lady Friend(s)April 1, 2021Derrick Jaxn, The Latest UnicornMarch 30, 2021He Says He ‘Never Went Looking for It’March 29, 2021Ever Run Into Your Ex?March 26, 2021Getting a Friendly ‘Weird Vibe’ from Ex-WifeMarch 25, 2021‘I Thought You Knew’March 24, 2021Allen vs. FarrowMarch 22, 2021You Might Be a Chump If…March 19, 2021Jealousy and ‘Just Friends’March 17, 2021Chumped by Two ChumpsMarch 15, 2021No Contact, Gray Rock, and Other Kinds of MightyMarch 12, 2021Why Are They So Petty?March 10, 2021Mighty MacKenzieMarch 9, 2021UBT: “Please Give Me Another Chance”March 8, 2021Croquettes ego-boostMarch 6, 2021Acabo de descubrir que me han puesto los cachos. ¿Y ahora qué?March 6, 2021Lo que NO debes hacerMarch 5, 2021Have a Bitch CookieMarch 5, 2021How to Have Boundaries with Teens: Cool, Bummer, WowMarch 4, 2021Standing on LiesMarch 1, 2021SupéraloFebruary 27, 2021Las paredes de tu casa cantan otra vezFebruary 27, 2021Como dejar a un traicioneroFebruary 27, 2021Galletillas de EgoFebruary 27, 2021Chumped But Not Down, What You Did RightFebruary 26, 20215 Things NOT to Do When You Discover CheatingFebruary 25, 2021Did He Cheat Because He’s Depressed?February 24, 2021Is He Going to Regret Choosing Her?February 23, 2021‘I Can’t Face Being a Single Mum’February 18, 2021When the Other Man Is Your BrotherFebruary 17, 2021We Reconciled… He Cheated AgainFebruary 16, 20213 Reasons Why You Should Maintain Your DignityFebruary 15, 2021Am I Selfish for Leaving Him?February 11, 2021It’s Time Again for Infidelity Valentines!February 10, 2021UBT: Opening the Marriage to Save the Marriage?February 9, 2021Does Social Media Encourage Cheating?February 8, 2021Gain a Life, Gain Better Health?February 5, 2021Everyone Thinks He’s ‘Nice’February 4, 2021Can I Tell His Family He Cheated?February 3, 2021UBT: The ‘Shame’ of Being Tiger Woods’ MistressFebruary 1, 2021Jason Collier, Serial DoucheJanuary 29, 2021Help Her Be Friendly to MeJanuary 28, 2021Struggling with No ContactJanuary 27, 2021My Mom Sided with the CheaterJanuary 26, 2021UBT: “I Made a List”January 25, 2021What Does Freedom Feels Like?January 22, 2021UBT: I Can’t RememberJanuary 20, 2021How Come I’m Not Over It Yet?January 19, 2021Is Pain a Choice?January 18, 2021Cheating Husband ‘Is a Predator’January 15, 2021Sexy Affair Utterances?January 13, 2021UBT: I Only Date Married MenJanuary 12, 2021He Walked Out for OW But Doesn’t Want a DivorceJanuary 11, 2021Why Does Everyone Want Me to Be Friends with My Ex?January 8, 2021Does Mental Illness Make Him Less of a Cheater?January 5, 2021Should I Send Her the Tape?December 31, 2020Why Is He So Mad at Me?December 30, 2020Fairy Dust Forgiveness After CheatingDecember 29, 2020The Dying OW’s ConfessionDecember 28, 2020Merry Christmas!December 25, 2020Smythe and Shkreli, Star-Crossed SchmoopiesDecember 23, 2020When You Discover Your Boyfriend Has a Married GirlfriendDecember 21, 2020It’s Beginning to Look a Lot like D-DayDecember 18, 2020Fractured Hallmark Holiday SpecialsDecember 16, 2020How Do I Make It Through the Holidays?December 15, 2020‘Replaced’ and Still Feels EmptyDecember 14, 2020On the First Day of Christmas My Cheater Gave to Me…December 11, 2020Lawyer Thinks She Has an Anger IssueDecember 10, 2020She ‘Can’t Decide’ Between UsDecember 9, 2020Did He Leave Me Because of ‘Affair Fog’?December 8, 2020What Advice Would You Give a Serial Cheater?December 7, 2020Your Long, Strange Hopium TripsDecember 4, 2020What Happens to Couple Friends After Divorce?December 3, 2020A Gain a Life Update… and Some Schmoopie KarmaDecember 2, 2020UBT: How Do I Get My Gay Cheating Husband to Reconcile?December 1, 2020‘Why Do Reconciliation Bloggers Annoy Me?’November 30, 2020Chump Lady Gratitude Turkey Day Recipe SwapNovember 26, 2020‘I Feel Trapped’November 25, 2020Ex-Wife Wants Old VHS Tapes for ChristmasNovember 24, 2020Controlling the NarrativeNovember 23, 2020Your Snooping SinsNovember 20, 2020The Crown, The CakeNovember 19, 2020He Wants to ‘Explore His Feelings’ with Her FriendNovember 18, 2020Cheater Lies Are ExhaustingNovember 18, 2020What Made the Other Woman Special?November 17, 2020UBT: The Huggy Ex and the OWNovember 16, 2020Tell Me How You’re Mighty, COVID Edition 2.0November 13, 2020UBT: “True Love Is Never a Scandal”November 12, 2020UBT: “I Would Like to Have a Final Conversation”November 10, 2020UBT: “I Forgive You”November 9, 2020When They Won’t LeaveNovember 6, 2020When Your Kids Believe the LiesNovember 5, 2020What Is the First Step?November 4, 2020When the Other Woman Was a FrienemyNovember 2, 2020The Apology That Wasn’tOctober 30, 2020Why Does He Ignore My Co-Parenting Questions?October 29, 2020UBT: “You Might Appreciate Knowing Some of This”October 28, 2020Are There Cheaters Who Left No Clues?October 27, 2020STBX Wants to Come Over for the HolidaysOctober 26, 2020Dumbest Insult Your Ex Tried?October 23, 2020Where’s My Justice?October 22, 2020Don’t Wait on That ApologyOctober 21, 2020Jeffrey Toobin’s Troublesome DickOctober 20, 2020My New Husband Is a ‘Sex Addict’October 19, 20205 Things That Keep You Stuck with a CheaterOctober 16, 2020He sees prostitutes. She’s ‘stuck in a fog’.October 15, 2020Returning to Caretake a Cheater Late in Life?October 13, 2020Is Monogamy Abuse?October 12, 2020Red Flags You Overlooked?October 9, 2020The ‘If You Aren’t Nicer’ ThreatOctober 8, 2020‘I Fail to Understand Your Hostility’October 7, 2020The Family Next DoorOctober 6, 2020Wife Wants to ‘Renegotiate’ the RelationshipOctober 5, 2020Any Karma Stories?October 2, 2020When It’s More Affairs Than You First KnewOctober 1, 2020Cheater Word Salad AttacksSeptember 30, 2020Nearly Engaged…Then BustedSeptember 29, 2020‘He Had a Complete Change of Heart’September 28, 2020‘My Sister Blames Me for My Husband’s Affair’September 22, 2020It’s the End of the World or the Beginning. I Can’t Tell.September 21, 2020Sad Sausage Tales?September 18, 2020When Will I Feel Indifferent?September 17, 2020‘I Can’t Talk to My Kids About Their Father’September 15, 2020UBT: ‘He Played Me Too’September 14, 2020Confrontation Flops?September 11, 2020How Do You Leave a Cheater?September 10, 2020UBT: ‘If You Need Me, I’ll Be There’September 9, 2020In-House Separation, She Won’t Move OutSeptember 8, 2020Close Encounters of the Fake Tears KindSeptember 4, 2020‘How Could He Walk Away from His Wife and Kids?’September 3, 2020Woman Has D-Day After Reading Ex’s Wedding AnnouncementSeptember 2, 2020Is This Jealousy?August 31, 2020Be Your Own UBTAugust 28, 2020UBT: Cheating on My Husband Made Me a Better MotherAugust 27, 2020The ‘People Pleaser’ ExcuseAugust 26, 2020Jerry Falwell Jr., Jesus Swinger?August 25, 2020Chump Won’t Stop Doing Her Ex FavorsAugust 24, 2020Most Ridiculous Excuse After Being Busted?August 21, 2020UBT: ‘My Dad Sucks’August 20, 2020Chumped and Questioning FeminismAugust 19, 2020Discovered CN by Googling ‘I Hate Esther Perel’August 18, 2020My Ex-Wife Wants Me to Go to Therapy with HerAugust 17, 2020Can I Leave a Suicidal Cheater?August 12, 2020A Chump Off the Old BlockAugust 10, 2020Breaking No Contact: How’d That Go?August 7, 2020Dead Bedroom? CheaterAugust 5, 2020No One Is Entitled to ReconciliationAugust 4, 2020Is Reporting Him Revenge?August 3, 2020Your Best Word Salad, PleaseJuly 31, 2020UBT: You Will Use This to Illustrate Your HolinessJuly 29, 2020When Affair Partners MarryJuly 28, 2020One Guy Chump’s Gain a Life StoryJuly 27, 2020UBT: ‘Shortcut to Happiness’July 22, 2020When Does the Pain Stop?July 21, 2020UBT: I Was Too Much Into My Own LiesJuly 20, 2020What Did You Do With the Photos?July 17, 2020UBT: Gottman’s ‘Reviving Trust After an Affair’July 16, 2020The Fiction of Unconditional LoveJuly 14, 2020UBT: Jada’s ‘Entanglement’July 13, 2020The Wrong Pickle and Other SinsJuly 10, 2020UBT: “Your Cheating Spouse Is the Victim, NOT You!”July 9, 2020The Kid Calls the Felon OW ‘Mama’July 8, 2020He Cheated… Everyone Feels Sorry for HimJuly 6, 2020A Declaration of Independence for ChumpsJuly 3, 2020Am I Going to Get Over This?July 2, 2020How Do You Get Past the Revulsion?July 1, 2020UBT: Affair Sex in the Marital Bed Is Wrong?June 29, 2020Chump Protagonists in TV Dramas?June 26, 2020Cheater Throws Them Out, OW Moves InJune 25, 2020He Cheated on Her Daughter. 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