Archives UBT: ‘I Had a Moment of Weakness As a Fragile, Broken Human’March 20, 2023Every Bit of Lousy Reconciliation AdviceMarch 17, 2023Why Isn’t She HAPPY Now?March 15, 20235 Ways to Decode a Non-Apology ApologyMarch 13, 2023I’m Angry At Myself For Not Leaving SoonerMarch 9, 2023Alex Murdaugh, King of the Double LifeMarch 7, 2023Why Won’t She Admit She’s Cheating on Me?March 6, 2023Real Monkey Love vs. Barbed Wire MonkeysMarch 3, 2023The Cheater Was My Best Friend And I Dumped HerMarch 2, 2023UBT: Affairs Can Be Self-CareMarch 1, 2023Carolyn Hax’s ‘Bitter Woman’ Pile OnFebruary 28, 2023‘What I Did to HIM?’ DARVOFebruary 27, 2023A Unicorn Ate My Facebook PageFebruary 24, 2023What Do I Say to the People Who Knew?February 23, 2023UBT: Cheater Wants to Get Back Together With Ex-Wife After 20 YearsFebruary 22, 2023Sex Addict Therapist Douglas Weiss Gets DivorcedFebruary 21, 2023An Inconvenient Time for a D-DayFebruary 20, 2023How Is Your Pet Better Than Your Ex?February 17, 2023Chumps and Beards and an OurPath PodcastFebruary 15, 2023UBT: The Heart Wants John Tory in OfficeFebruary 14, 2023DNA Test Reveals Cheating Ex Had More KidsFebruary 13, 2023Infidelity Valentine’s Day Poetry 2023February 10, 2023We Had a Good Life — Why Did He Cheat?February 9, 2023‘He’s Moved On. I Haven’t.’February 8, 2023Do It Yourself Divorce — Good Idea or Not?February 7, 2023UBT: ‘Schoompie Wants the Scoop-y’ on Chump’s Dead HusbandFebruary 6, 2023How Many People Knew and Didn’t Tell You?February 3, 2023Looking Back and Marveling at the SpackleFebruary 2, 2023The Other Woman Calls Me for AdviceFebruary 1, 2023Amy Robach and TJ Holmes Get Canned for Workplace AffairJanuary 31, 2023Parasitic Boyfriend Won’t LeaveJanuary 30, 2023What Did You Learn from Being Chumped?January 27, 2023He’s Checked Out for OnlyFansJanuary 26, 2023I Feel Stronger Breaking Up This TimeJanuary 25, 2023Is Every Cheater Mentally Ill?January 24, 2023UBT: ‘I Like Me. A Lot.’January 23, 2023Stupid Cheater Lame ExcusesJanuary 20, 2023Child Support Enforcement Can Bite MeJanuary 19, 2023Why Is My Ex Stonewalling Me?January 18, 2023Shakira’s Epic Takedown of Her ExJanuary 16, 2023Singing Walls and DementiaJanuary 13, 2023Don’t Tell Me to Leave HimJanuary 12, 2023Debunking Dan SavageJanuary 11, 2023UBT: The Other Woman Sends a Self-Help BookJanuary 10, 2023Shakira v Schmoopie: The TimelineJanuary 9, 2023The ‘Side Chik’ — Krystal Hamburger’s Moronic Ad CampaignJanuary 5, 2023Divorce Is ‘More Than I Can Deal With’January 4, 2023The Other Woman Is a TherapistJanuary 3, 2023Be Free, Unfold the SwansJanuary 2, 2023Where Are You Now?December 30, 2022UBT: You Encouraged My Wife to Leave MeDecember 29, 2022She Left Me for a Downgrade. Was I THAT Bad?December 28, 2022The OW Calls Herself a FeministDecember 27, 2022UBT: The OW Who Just Wants to HelpDecember 26, 2022A Golden Retriever, Pine Cone Elf, Merry Christmas MiscellanyDecember 23, 2022How Can I Help Son Reconcile with His Cheater Dad?December 22, 2022How Do You Ask for a Divorce?December 21, 2022Ex-Wife’s Affair Timeline Doesn’t Add UpDecember 20, 2022I Regret Unfriending My Cheating ExDecember 19, 2022What Did You Reclaim? How Did You Reclaim It?December 16, 2022UBT: I Am The Other WomanDecember 15, 2022Toxic MIL Pushes Mediation ‘For The Children’December 14, 2022UBT: How Do I Handle the Death of My Secret Lover?December 13, 2022What Dreams of Happiness Did You Crush?December 9, 2022Is Forgiving a Cheater Required?December 8, 2022Womp, Womp Consequences for TJ Holmes and Amy RobachDecember 7, 2022Helen Skelton Living Her Best Life After Being ChumpedDecember 6, 2022Strategies to Protect Against Mentally Unstable Mistress?December 5, 2022The Crazy Synchronicity of Amy Robach and TJ HolmesDecember 2, 2022UBT: Bad Cheater PoetryDecember 1, 2022Advice on Confronting Dead Cheater’s Schoompie?November 30, 2022UBT: A Million Dollars to ReconcileNovember 29, 2022Cheating Songs That Drive You Nuts?November 25, 2022Took Him Back, Now He’s Cheating with His BossNovember 22, 20227 Ways Elon Musk Is Your Average Dime Store NarcissistNovember 21, 2022Stupid Things Cheaters Say After D-Day?November 18, 2022I Told Her He Cheated and She Married Him AnywayNovember 17, 2022UBT: I Always Felt TrappedNovember 16, 2022Trying to Divorce When the Cheater Won’t Move OutNovember 15, 2022I Don’t Want to Spend Holidays with My ExNovember 14, 2022Woman Gets $7 Million in Infidelity Post-Nup ClauseNovember 9, 2022Why Is He Copying Me?November 8, 2022Do Cheaters Disguise Themselves As Addicts?November 7, 20223 Tips for Dealing with Betrayal Trauma RageNovember 4, 2022Alain de Botton Can Bite MeNovember 3, 2022UBT: Why HER?November 2, 2022Heart Broken: Take a Beta Blocker?October 31, 2022What Did You Unknowingly Do for the OW/OM?October 28, 2022Everyone Tells Me He’s Not a Bad PersonOctober 27, 2022Stupid Things People Say to ChumpsOctober 26, 2022My Family Wants Me to Support My Cheating BrotherOctober 25, 2022When Schmoopie Is a Public FigureOctober 24, 2022What Schmoopie Thought They Were Getting vs. What They GotOctober 21, 2022My Friend Thinks I Should Be Nicer to the Other WomanOctober 20, 2022How Do I Know When I’m Done?October 19, 2022Olivia Wilde’s Cheating Timeline Busted?October 18, 2022I Thought We Were Monogamous. She Thought We Were Polyamorous.October 17, 2022Did You Spackle?October 14, 2022Do You Think ‘Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater’?October 13, 2022UBT: Should I feel guilty about 25 years of cheating?October 11, 2022Should I Reach Out to the OW?October 10, 2022Your Chump FriendshipsOctober 7, 2022The Rise and Fall of Wife GuysOctober 5, 2022Need a Response to ‘His Cheating Had Nothing to Do with the Kids’October 4, 2022He Left for OW, But Stays in Touch DailyOctober 3, 2022Worst Gift Ever?September 30, 2022UBT: Other Woman Doesn’t Want the “Mistress” LabelSeptember 29, 2022UBT: The Children Made Me CheatSeptember 28, 2022Why Does My Cheating-Ex Show Off Around Me?September 27, 2022And the Saddest Sausage Goes to…September 23, 2022It’s Different. The Sex Addict Has Been to Therapy.September 22, 2022Adam Levine Suggests Naming His Child After His MistressSeptember 21, 2022UBT: Dr. Keith Ablow ‘Infidelity Is a Lousy Reason to End a Marriage’September 20, 2022Long Distance Relationships and Double LivesSeptember 19, 2022How Did You Mentally Survive Infidelity?September 16, 2022How Do I Get My Cheating Wife to Reconcile with Me?September 15, 2022When the Cheater Is in the FamilySeptember 13, 2022Camilla Queen ConsortSeptember 12, 2022Chump Epiphanies?September 9, 2022UBT: ‘I Had an Affair And Now My Kids Won’t Forgive Me’September 8, 2022He Claims He Just Sexts and Never MeetsSeptember 7, 2022He Cheated Me and His EmployerSeptember 6, 2022Stress of Staying in a Toxic RelationshipSeptember 2, 2022Leave a Cheater, Gain a Bradley CooperSeptember 1, 2022How Do I Help My Chumped Son?August 29, 2022Cringey Cheater ProfunditiesAugust 26, 2022UBT: Sad Sausage PoetryAugust 24, 2022Chumped with a Cheating FriendAugust 23, 2022Woman Outs Cheater in Aussie NewspaperAugust 22, 2022Any Regrets Leaving a Cheater?August 19, 2022UBT: ‘I in no way want be looked at as a home wrecker’August 18, 2022She Won’t Leave Her CheaterAugust 17, 2022Michelle Branch Arrested for Slapping Cheating HusbandAugust 15, 2022What’s Your Ex’s Name on Your Cell Phone?August 12, 2022Schmoopie Dumped Him, He Blames the KidsAugust 11, 2022Olivia Newton John’s Unwavering PositivityAugust 10, 2022UBT: ‘Give Me Some Clarity’August 9, 2022Tell Me About Your BoundariesAugust 5, 2022The ‘I’m Sorry, We Good?’ PlayAugust 4, 2022How Do They Flip So Fast?August 3, 2022Five Months Pregnant and He Announces He’s Getting His ‘Needs’ Met ElsewhereAugust 2, 2022Uber Driver Busts Jesus Cheater Legislators?August 1, 2022How Much Did You Spend on Reconciliation?July 29, 2022I Need to Know the OW’s IdentityJuly 28, 2022The Elon Musk Super Douche AffairJuly 27, 2022What If He Changes for the OW?July 26, 2022Reconcile at a $12K Marriage RetreatJuly 25, 2022Jennifer Lopez Marries New and Improved Ben AffleckJuly 21, 2022UBT: I Am Not In ControlJuly 19, 2022He Runs Me Down to Our DaughterJuly 14, 2022UBT: Destroying Marriages to Improve ThemJuly 12, 2022UBT: ‘Please Send Me the Money’July 11, 2022Cheating Father Gets Unvarnished ObituaryJuly 8, 2022‘She Refuses to Understand We Are Over’July 7, 2022Husband Uses Massage ParlorsJuly 6, 2022Ex Insists Their Son Call OW ‘Mummy’July 5, 2022Defending Incomprehensible Life ChoicesJuly 1, 2022Shkreli Smythe Schmoopie KarmaJune 30, 2022‘Why Do I Miss Him?’June 29, 2022‘I Hate No Contact’June 28, 2022Babies Are Great!June 27, 2022‘Why Won’t She Get Over It?’June 24, 2022UBT: When Your Affair Partner Ghosts YouJune 23, 2022Franklin Graham Encourages Woman to Take Abuser BackJune 21, 2022The Phone Records Are Shady, Is He Cheating?June 20, 2022Therapy Homework FailsJune 17, 2022UBT: ‘He Hurt You, Not Me’June 16, 2022Confronting a Divorce-Phobic CheaterJune 15, 2022Pick Me Dance FailJune 14, 2022Am I a Bad Friend for Not Supporting Friend’s Affair?June 13, 2022Where Do You Get Your Mighty?June 10, 2022Do I Unfriend My Ex’s Family on Social Media?June 9, 2022Shakira Got ChumpedJune 8, 2022Can I Leave for an Emotional Affair?June 7, 2022I’m a Civil Coparent. Isn’t That Enough?June 6, 2022Translate Some BSJune 3, 2022Untangling Depp vs. HeardJune 2, 2022Why Does Everyone Assume Cheating Is the Chump’s Fault?June 1, 2022He Says He’s a Sex Addict. Should I Keep Dating Him?May 31, 2022What Did They Still Expect After They Cheated?May 27, 2022Jesus Cheaters John Lowe and the Southern Baptist ConventionMay 26, 2022Her Cheating Husband Spies on HerMay 25, 2022Gain a Life Tuesday: Karma and Trading UpMay 24, 2022She Keeps Acting Like We’re a ‘We’May 23, 2022Tell Me How You’re MightyMay 20, 2022Hulu’s Candy: Twu Wuv and Axe MurderMay 19, 2022How to Tolerate Ex in Close ProximityMay 17, 2022The Long Arc of Sane ParentingMay 16, 2022My Ex Wants to Live in My BasementMay 12, 2022UBT: ‘They are all deep connections with different colors’May 11, 2022Will He Commit After the Baby Is Born?May 10, 2022Would You Tell a Dying Woman She’s a Chump?May 9, 2022Euphemisms for Cheating?May 6, 2022Bill Gates Has a Sadz About His DivorceMay 5, 2022Are You Sure It’s Not My Fault?May 4, 2022When Soul Mates Go SplatMay 3, 2022UBT: ‘Sorry I Was So Lame’April 28, 2022My Friend Won’t Listen to Your AdviceApril 27, 2022The Other Woman DiedApril 26, 2022What If I’m Never Meh?April 25, 20224 Reasons Why Gaslighting WorksApril 22, 2022She Was Going to ‘Make It Up to Me’April 21, 2022How Do I Face the Other Woman at Daughter’s Graduation?April 20, 2022UBT: “Just Let Me Try”April 18, 2022Dating Profiles You Would Never PostApril 15, 2022‘I Think My Boyfriend Is on Dating Sites’April 12, 2022How Do I Explain My Divorce?April 11, 2022Will, Jada…. Esther?April 8, 2022He Cheated on Me with ProstitutesApril 7, 2022‘She Must’ve Made the Right Decision to Cheat’April 6, 2022Getting Through ‘The Slog’April 5, 2022He Denies He Cheated… And Our Friends Believe HimApril 4, 2022Did the Affair Partner Tell You?April 1, 2022‘I Believe the Other Woman Is Psycho’March 31, 2022Decoding ‘I Haven’t Been Happy For a Long Time’March 30, 2022Tuesday Tales from the Other SideMarch 29, 2022‘Love Will Make You Do Crazy Things’March 28, 2022Closure and Other MythsMarch 25, 2022She Admitted to Cheating, Then We Had Great Sex… WTF?March 24, 2022UBT: ‘You Should’ve Been a Better Husband’March 23, 2022What If I Leave and He Really Loves Me?March 22, 2022UBT: ‘It Has Not Broken Me’March 21, 2022Bitch Boots and Other TalismansMarch 18, 2022UBT: ‘You Made Me Leave You’March 17, 2022Should I Tell the Other Chump?March 16, 2022Her Husband Wants an Open MarriageMarch 15, 2022The Affair Partner Is Daughter’s CoachMarch 14, 2022‘Broken’ Cheater Cheats AgainMarch 10, 2022Why Can’t He Be Happy for Me?March 9, 2022When the OW’s Kid Insults YouMarch 8, 20224 Ways Melinda Gates Keeps Her Divorce ClassyMarch 7, 2022The Moment You Knew You Were Mighty?March 4, 2022Left a Cheater, Gained a Few NightmaresMarch 3, 2022Ex Thinks They Must Have a ‘Relationship’ for Their DaughterMarch 2, 2022The Other Woman Signs My Child Support ChecksMarch 1, 2022Clapping Back at Switzerland FriendsFebruary 28, 2022Is Anyone ‘Grateful’ for the OW/OM?February 25, 2022How Not to Be a Chump When DatingFebruary 24, 2022COVID Roommate Becomes Other WomanFebruary 23, 2022How Do You Get Out of Limbo?February 22, 2022D-Day and The Silent TreatmentFebruary 21, 2022Did You File First?February 18, 2022The Kids Are Killing My MehFebruary 17, 2022UBT: ‘I’m Trying Right Now’February 15, 2022The Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day Poetry ContestFebruary 14, 2022I Can’t Believe I Just Said ThatFebruary 11, 2022How to Divorce a Financially Abusive CheaterFebruary 10, 2022Camilla Queen ConsortFebruary 8, 2022Joe Millionaire: The Pick-Me Dance for Fun and ProfitFebruary 7, 2022Jeff Zucker’s Hasty RetreatFebruary 3, 2022Angry Feelings Still That She ‘Got Away with It’February 2, 2022Jealousy and the Leggy, Blonde Other WomanFebruary 1, 20224 Reasons Affair Fog Is Not a ThingJanuary 31, 2022Tell Me How You’re Mighty, Pandemic Edition When-TF-Ever This EndsJanuary 28, 2022Woman Donates Kidney to Cheating BoyfriendJanuary 27, 2022A Leave-a-Cheater Tuesday StoryJanuary 25, 2022And Just Like That: Pick-Me-Dance TriumphJanuary 24, 2022Stupid Sh*t the Blameshifting Reconciliation Industrial Complex SaysJanuary 21, 2022How to Deal with TauntingJanuary 20, 2022Joss Whedon’s Non-ApologyJanuary 19, 2022UBT: Brent Sadler’s Douche SolidarityJanuary 18, 2022Is She Really Just a Close Friend?January 17, 2022Most Creative Concealment ExcusesJanuary 14, 2022UBT: ‘My Ex Owes Me Money’January 13, 2022Help Me Not Be a BitchJanuary 11, 2022‘I Didn’t See Any Red Flags’January 10, 2022Attempted Hoovering FailsJanuary 7, 2022He Was Not As AdvertisedJanuary 6, 2022How to Line Up Ducks When You Can’t Afford a DuckJanuary 4, 2022Schadenfreude and the FW WhispererJanuary 3, 2022Better Days Ahead 2022 EditionDecember 31, 2021DaVinci Code Guy’s ‘Secret Life’?December 30, 2021Chumped, Friendless, and StuckDecember 29, 2021Busted by Doorbell CamDecember 28, 2021I Love My ‘Wonderful’ Addicted Cheating WifeDecember 27, 2021When Your Kids Want You to ‘Get Over It’December 24, 2021He’s Cheating and Now ‘Needs My Help’December 23, 2021He Apologized. Now What?December 22, 2021How Do I Stop Feeling Guilty About Separation?December 20, 2021Cheater Freak Christmas ContestDecember 17, 2021Ben Affleck Has a SadzDecember 15, 2021‘I Left Him on the Side of the Road’December 14, 2021UBT: Will the Sex Get Boring?December 13, 2021Holiday D-Days Anyone?December 10, 2021Left Her with 4-Month Child So He Could Be ‘Happier’December 9, 2021Living Together Until Cheating Wife’s Affair Partner Is FreeDecember 8, 2021‘My Sister Is Cheating on My Brother-in-Law’December 6, 2021How Did You Line Up Your Ducks?December 3, 2021‘My Husband Got Engaged’December 2, 2021Can I Break Grey Rock Just This Once, Please?December 1, 2021UBT: ‘Emotions at Many Times’November 29, 2021Holiday Traditions You No Longer Must Endure?November 26, 2021Happy Thanksgiving! Gratitude and Jello SaladNovember 25, 2021How to Help a Chumped Parent?November 22, 2021Best Sad Sausage PerformancesNovember 19, 2021Lone Star Jesus Cheaters Jim Graham and Kari BeckmanNovember 18, 2021Accept the Love Bombing Gifts?November 17, 2021Her Husband Wishes She Were More Porn-likeNovember 15, 2021Signposts to Meh?November 12, 2021He Says ‘It’s Not What It Looks Like’November 11, 2021 Posts navigation Previous Page 1 2 3 4 5 … 9 Next Page TweetShareSharePin