Archives Living with Uncertainty After InfidelityOctober 15, 2015UBT: Michelle Duggar’s Marriage AdviceOctober 14, 2015The “People Pleaser” ExcuseOctober 13, 2015Divorce? Hey, You’re Doing It All WrongOctober 12, 2015Where Does “Meh” Go When the OW Moves In Next Door?October 8, 2015UBT: “How Having an Affair Saved My Life.”October 7, 2015Dear Chump Lady, How can I help my mom forgive herself for being a chump?October 6, 2015Dear Chump Lady, I want them to know I knowOctober 5, 2015What’s an exit affair?October 2, 2015Potential AddictionOctober 1, 2015UBT: Cheating Wife Unable to Remain Faithful to ‘Perfect Husband’September 30, 2015UBT: “It happened and it’s not my fault.”September 29, 2015Leave a Cheater, Gain a Dog?September 28, 2015Early Wingnut Warning SignsSeptember 24, 2015Dear Josh, You’re a ChumpSeptember 21, 2015Naming AbuseSeptember 20, 2015Arts and Crafts for CheatersSeptember 18, 2015UBT: Cheaters didn’t know “what else” to do!September 17, 2015Give Up on Closure with a CheaterSeptember 16, 2015A Guy Chump’s Tale from the Other SideSeptember 15, 2015UBT: “You don’t love me the way I need to be loved”September 14, 2015Dump Scorned AlreadySeptember 11, 2015Etiquette for Mistresses?September 9, 2015UBT: “Sometimes You Need to Betray the Social Order”September 4, 2015UBT: “I Wasn’t Trying to Manipulate You”September 3, 2015Ashley Madison Hacked? Where’s Esther?September 1, 2015UBT: “I Don’t Even Like Him”August 31, 2015Ashley Madison, You Saucy MinxAugust 27, 2015UBT: “You Were So Perfect, I Had to Cheat.”August 26, 2015Your Life Version 2.0August 25, 2015The Good Advice Chumps Won’t Take… NowAugust 24, 2015Infidelity Advice for the Newly Chumped?August 21, 2015AM Genie Out of the BottleAugust 20, 2015The Data Hits the FanAugust 19, 2015Why Is It So Hard to Remember They Suck?August 17, 2015What is the difference between cheaters and chumps?August 16, 2015Worst Infidelity Advice?August 14, 2015When Escape Is Your Best OptionAugust 12, 2015Welcome to the Dating JungleAugust 11, 2015How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Not Fall in Love with the BombAugust 10, 2015State Rep Invents Gay Affair to Hide Real AffairAugust 8, 2015Your Very Best Spackle, PleaseAugust 7, 2015What Is It With the Nannies?August 5, 2015Honor Among CheatersAugust 4, 2015Dear Chump Lady, My husband is trying to pimp me out to strangersAugust 3, 2015Time for a Mightiness Check InJuly 31, 2015Your “It’s Not Okay” ListJuly 30, 2015Dear Chump Lady, Divorce is more than I can deal withJuly 28, 2015Take Back Your PowerJuly 27, 2015The Dead-Eyed StareJuly 23, 2015Dear Chump Lady, What do I do when my kids are with OW?July 22, 2015The Helpless Other WomanJuly 21, 2015Ashley Madison’s Data Held HostageJuly 20, 2015Dear Chump Lady, Is this meh or did I just give up?July 16, 2015Problem, Adult Solution, Cheater SolutionJuly 14, 2015Dear Chump Lady, How do I support my friend’s reconciliation?July 14, 2015Dear Chump Lady, I’m a serial cheaterJuly 13, 2015Dear Chump Lady, Why is she sorry NOW?July 10, 2015Reconciliation StoriesJuly 7, 2015UBT: Renegade Sex TherapistsJuly 6, 2015Dear Chump Lady, I can’t evict him from my headJuly 3, 2015Affair EnablersJune 30, 2015The Narcissist ChecklistJune 29, 2015Aspiring to MarriageJune 26, 2015Eat, Pray, KibbleJune 26, 2015Lyle Mitchell, ChumpJune 24, 2015Dear Chump Lady, How do I heal my “kindness flaw”?June 23, 2015Dear Chump Lady, Make nice with the OW… or elseJune 22, 2015UBT: Cheater Asks His Parents for CashJune 19, 2015Dear Chump Lady, The OW says she will “destroy” meJune 18, 2015Parents Who AbandonJune 16, 2015Why Is He Suddenly Being Nice?June 15, 2015UBT: “I’m sorry you don’t love me.”June 12, 2015Dear Chump Lady, I’m wondering if I did the right thing divorcing him?June 11, 2015Most Pathetic Play for Kibbles?June 10, 2015UBT: ‘My handling of your situation is beyond fault.’June 7, 2015The Chump and the PsychicJune 6, 2015A Bad Day to Be Bobby FlayJune 5, 2015How Come My Boyfriends Suck?June 4, 2015Interview with Dr. David Ley, author of “The Myth of Sex Addiction”June 2, 2015My Therapist Says I Shouldn’t Tell People He CheatedMay 31, 2015Leave a Cheater, Gain a Cat?May 29, 2015UBT: How to Break Free from MonogamyMay 28, 2015Adult Friend Finder Is HackedMay 27, 2015Duggar Family DysfunctionMay 23, 2015Karma Came for Rockefeller’s MistressMay 22, 2015Second Guessing the Decision to LeaveMay 20, 2015What Is It With Cheaters Not Filing for Divorce?May 19, 2015What Dreams Did You Crush?May 15, 2015Tiger Woods Cheated Again, Surprise!May 13, 2015UBT: “I have the best sex with married men.”May 11, 2015If You Don’t Take Her to Brunch, She’ll Have an Affair?May 8, 2015UBT: “The explanations were never good enough.”May 7, 2015UBT: “You’re not capable of forgiveness.”May 6, 2015UBT: Monogamy Is a GiftMay 5, 2015Cheater Compares Herself to Martin Luther King, Jr.May 1, 2015Craziest Thing They Asked for in the Divorce?April 30, 2015Dear Chump Lady, He “can’t decide”April 29, 2015UBT: ‘There Are No Right Answers in the Aftermath of Infidelity’April 28, 2015Bobby Betray: The Bobby Flay Cheater ScandalApril 24, 2015Dear Chump Lady, I just discovered that my mom cheatedApril 23, 2015UBT: Joseph’s LetterApril 22, 2015Forgive $38K in Back Child Support?April 21, 2015You Might Be a Recovered Chump If…April 20, 2015You Might Be a Chump If…April 17, 2015Why Sleeping With Dean McDermott Is a Very Bad IdeaApril 15, 2015Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to host the OW’s kid?April 14, 2015In Defense of AngerApril 9, 2015My Ex Wants Us to Be ‘One Big Happy Family’April 8, 2015Financial Infidelity: Double Lives Cost MoneyApril 3, 2015HGTV’s Hilary Farr, Queen of the BoundariesMarch 31, 2015Did Stress Cause Him to Cheat?March 30, 2015How Do I Manage Weekly Contact with My Ex?March 27, 2015The UBT Takes on AimeeMarch 26, 2015The OW Were Not AmusedMarch 24, 2015Red Flags You Were With a Cheater?March 21, 2015Monica Lewinsky, The Poorest of SausagesMarch 20, 2015Affairs Save MarriagesMarch 19, 2015Australian Ad Board Finds Ashley Madison Ad Discriminatory to WomenMarch 18, 2015Why Did You Leave?March 15, 2015Why Did You Stay?March 13, 2015Dear BeyonceMarch 12, 2015Dear Chump Lady, My teenagers blame meMarch 10, 2015What Is Pain Shopping?March 9, 2015Narcissists Who’ve Got GameMarch 6, 2015Toxic Shame — Or Just Being a Jerk?March 5, 2015Enough with Divorce ShameMarch 4, 2015Dissolving the EgoMarch 3, 2015Sorry Seems to Be the Hardest WordMarch 2, 2015Dear Chump Lady, How can I stay the course?March 1, 2015Dear Chump Lady, The Zoloft Isn’t HelpingFebruary 26, 2015How To Leave Someone, How to Be LeftFebruary 25, 2015Please Don’t Take Their Word for ItFebruary 24, 2015The UBT Takes On Mother-In-LawsFebruary 23, 201580 Rosebushes and Other Chump ManiasFebruary 20, 2015UBT: I Wish You Were Still NiceFebruary 18, 2015Dear Chump Lady, How could he turn into a completely different person?February 16, 2015UBT: Maybe Our Problem Is We Work Too Well TogetherFebruary 12, 2015Dear Chump Lady, Do I just like drama?February 10, 2015Dear Chump Lady, I wish I didn’t careFebruary 8, 2015Cheater GogglesFebruary 5, 2015Dear Chump Lady, How do I break through to her?February 4, 2015The Third Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day Contest!February 1, 2015Dear Chump Lady, I’m due to give birth and found him sexting…January 29, 2015Don’t Ask AmyJanuary 28, 2015What Did You Do That You’ve Never Done Before?January 27, 2015Dear Chump Lady, Does it really get better?January 26, 2015What Would You Tell Yourself at D-Day?January 23, 2015Don’t Judge MeJanuary 22, 2015Dear Chump Lady, My husband wants a polyamorist marriageJanuary 21, 2015Dear Chump Lady, I found my cheating dad’s homemade pornJanuary 20, 2015My Ex Is Trying to Bully Me into 50/50 CustodyJanuary 19, 2015Dear Chump Lady, What do I make of this “goodbye letter” from my ex?January 15, 2015Dear Chump Lady, “I couldn’t forgive a mistake.”January 14, 2015Can Affair Relationships Last? Are You Super, Duper Special?January 12, 2015Twelve Days of Cheater FreakinessJanuary 10, 2015“Eat Your Pudding” and Other Sexy Affair UtterancesJanuary 9, 2015How Not to Be a Cheater?January 7, 2015Divorce and Financial Infidelity: What You Need to KnowJanuary 6, 2015More Mightiness!January 5, 2015Dear Chump Lady, My wife is a serial cheater.January 3, 2015Dear Chump Lady, Where do you find the strength?January 2, 2015Dear Chump Lady, How do I leave without him getting violent?December 31, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Why should I agree to divorce him?December 29, 2014Chump Encouragement from the Other SideDecember 27, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Still kind of stuck…December 26, 2014It’s Beginning to Look a Lot Like… InfidelityDecember 23, 2014Searching for Meaning in AmbiguityDecember 21, 2014Dear Chump Lady, What did you do on the anniversary of your D-Day?December 19, 2014Don’t Let Them Steal Another DayDecember 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is there a statute of limitations on this chump thing?December 17, 2014Being Anti-Cheating Doesn’t Mean You’re Not Sex PositiveDecember 15, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Lack of melatonin made him cheatDecember 14, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How can I get my chumpy friend to wise up?December 12, 2014Double-Decker Holiday Shit SandwichesDecember 11, 2014When Cheaters Do Therapy… Some PrecautionsDecember 10, 2014Man Busts Cheating Woman at Detroit Lions GameDecember 9, 2014Cheater Freak Christmas Contest!December 8, 2014Come Back to Us, Dean!December 5, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Seeing prostitutes makes for good parenting? WTF?December 4, 2014Jesus CheatersDecember 3, 2014Don’t Date This PersonDecember 2, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I put her through med school. She put me through hell.December 1, 2014Dear Chump Lady, “31 and can’t start my life over”November 29, 2014The New I Do WTFever Makes Me HappyNovember 26, 2014Dear Chump Lady, The cheaters live next door…November 25, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My daughter wants to show me pictures of the OWNovember 24, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Am I looking at this the wrong way?November 22, 2014My Dad Is a Narcissist and a CheaterNovember 21, 2014Best Chump Retorts?November 18, 2014Esther Perel Should STFUNovember 16, 2014Sugar Babies Saving Marriages?November 14, 2014Dear Chump Lady, What do you think of spontaneous “confessions”?November 10, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My wife had an affair with her therapistNovember 8, 2014Life Post-Cheater — What Did You Change?November 6, 2014The Cure for Cheating — Plastic Surgery? WTF?November 5, 2014Blame a Chump, Save a UnicornNovember 4, 2014Do You Think My Married Boyfriend Loves Me?November 3, 2014Christie Brinkley vindicated?November 2, 2014Don’t Be Anonymous If You’re Outing a CheaterOctober 28, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He fooled me, he fooled my daughterOctober 26, 2014Dean McDermott: ‘I’m Not the First Person to Ever Cheat’October 25, 2014My Ex-Husband Wants to Stay Friends. Why?October 23, 2014Eat, Pray, Forgive? WTF?October 22, 2014My Dad Is Cheating on His GirlfriendOctober 19, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m working with the OWOctober 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is “True Tori” a Good Thing?October 15, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I cheated on my husbandOctober 14, 2014Why Does My Pink Hair Make Me Feel Better?October 11, 2014Season 2 of True Tori… Why?October 10, 2014Are There Circumstances When an Affair Is Not Immoral?October 9, 2014How to Coparent with a NarcissistOctober 7, 2014Spackle & Spackle AssociatesOctober 6, 2014Am I Selfish for Wanting a Divorce?October 5, 2014The Benevolent OWOctober 3, 2014Chump KidsOctober 2, 2014How Badly Will Divorce Screw Up My Kids?October 1, 2014The Ones Who Just Leave and AbandonSeptember 29, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He started cheating the first month we datedSeptember 28, 2014Dear Chump Lady, The OW calls me for advice!September 24, 2014Even Honey Boo Boo’s Mom Can Leave a CheaterSeptember 20, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I was okay… until he got a new boyfriendSeptember 19, 2014So What Do You Call Them?September 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, She’s having an affair with her bossSeptember 16, 2014Dreadful Cheater HolidaysSeptember 15, 2014Poor Mark SanfordSeptember 13, 2014Don’t Need It That BadSeptember 12, 2014Who Was Your Infidelity Angel?September 11, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How did you experience the stages of grief?September 10, 2014Am I Bitter If I Tell People She Cheated?September 9, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is this a unicorn?September 8, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m trying to divorce in India. What should I do?September 6, 2014Chump Lady Gets a LetterSeptember 5, 2014Who Gets the Friends in the Divorce?September 4, 201450 Shades of Subtle NuanceSeptember 3, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Should I divorce his cheating, Mormon ass?September 1, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My fiancé is friends with a nest of cheatersAugust 30, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Got close to meh, and then… boom.August 29, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m meeting his bitch-ass lawyerAugust 28, 2014Create Some Fake Credentials for Chump Lady!August 27, 2014Meaningless Flings and the Myth of the Good CheaterAugust 26, 2014It’s not an affair! It’s an act of “exuberant defiance.”August 25, 2014Mistress Greeting Cards… Really.August 23, 2014They’re Not WaywardAugust 22, 2014Confessions of a Better Sort of CheaterAugust 21, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Did you take the drugs? Did they help?August 20, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is a “morality clause” insane?August 19, 2014This Monogamist’s Take on OrgiesAugust 18, 2014Dear Chump Lady, She wants to apologize for cheating on meAugust 15, 2014Is Sex Addiction a Myth or a Real Condition?August 13, 2014A Public Service Announcement for Chumps?August 10, 2014A Serial Cheater’s Relationship “Advice”August 8, 2014Dear Chump Lady, What can I do about her smear campaign?August 7, 2014How do I get through today?August 5, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I want the satisfaction of a confrontationAugust 2, 2014Time for More MIGHTINESSJuly 31, 2014Why Did Daddy Leave Us? Because Daddy Is an AssholeJuly 30, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Why did he come back if only to hurt me?July 29, 2014Forgiveness Troll Says Take a SurveyJuly 27, 2014An Imperfect Beginning?July 25, 2014Dear Chump Lady, The hope still gets meJuly 23, 2014Better the Devil You Know?July 21, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He never told his adult kids their mom cheatedJuly 19, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He’d have never met her — if I’d only been better?July 17, 2014Beware Jesus Cheaters… There’s a New Blog in TownJuly 16, 2014Making Character Cool?July 15, 2014When Your Cheater Is a SickoJuly 14, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Is there any way back from an emotional affair?July 13, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Am I divorcing too soon?July 11, 2014If You Thought I Was That Sort of Person, You Shouldn’t Be With MeJuly 10, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My husband was using prostitutesJuly 9, 2014The Pretzel Logic of the 180July 6, 2014Trapped in a Cabin with ToriJuly 5, 2014What Gift Do You Give a Cheater?July 2, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I have to paternity check my kidsJuly 1, 2014Reconciliation — What did you try? What did you buy?June 29, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I’m dating a ‘cheater apologist’June 29, 2014The Chump Cloak of InvisibilityJune 27, 2014Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over my envy?June 25, 2014The Fog Comes Softly on Little Cheater FeetJune 24, 2014My Cheater Is an Eagle ScoutJune 23, 2014Yes I Am a ChumpJune 20, 2014Dear Chump Lady, My ex-husband and my father are both cheatersJune 18, 2014Real Love. The Antidote to Douchieness.June 17, 2014Woe! “Marriage is a bed sheet that can never be straightened.”June 17, 2014Who Did You Become While Married to a Cheater?June 15, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Abandoned while pregnant, should he pay support?June 13, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Reconciling from his emotional affair is not workingJune 11, 2014Men Cheat Because They Love Us? WTF?June 10, 2014Problem, Adult Solution, Cheater SolutionJune 9, 2014Dear Chump Lady, I suspect an affairJune 8, 2014The Exceedingly Un-special Tori SpellingJune 6, 2014Men Cheat Because Women ‘Feminize’ Them… Says IdiotJune 5, 2014Did the Tree of Karma Fall on Your Cheater?June 4, 2014Dear Chump Lady, He doesn’t want me, so why hold up the divorce?June 3, 2014Why Do We Over Share?June 2, 2014Over Sharing and ChumpdomMay 31, 2014When Tattooing His Penis Just Isn’t EnoughMay 30, 2014How to Say No and Stop Being a ChumpMay 29, 2014Dear Chump Lady, Should I trust him again?May 28, 2014 Posts navigation Previous Page 1 … 4 5 6 7 8 9 Next Page TweetShareSharePin