Archives UBT: ‘A Letter to My Lover’s Wife’January 2, 2019Why Is He Hoovering and Sending Poetry?December 31, 2018The Promise Land of MehDecember 24, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Where do I go with this anger?December 20, 2018Most Spectacularly Callous Christmas Dump?December 14, 2018UBT: “I Want to Dive Into You”December 12, 2018Dear Chump Lady, I just want to watch it burnDecember 10, 2018Is All This Pain Worth It, If He Changes?December 6, 2018‘I Cheated And Now She Won’t Be My Friend’December 4, 2018Schadenfreude SnarkNovember 30, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Please kick my assNovember 29, 2018Out of Sight, Out of Mind: Understanding Cheater DetachmentNovember 28, 2018Holiday HooveringNovember 23, 2018Bye-Bye, CheaterNovember 21, 2018My Wife Kissed a CoworkerNovember 19, 2018Chump Nation Gives ThanksNovember 16, 2018The Pick Me Dance and PolyamoryNovember 14, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Where do I put his stuff?November 13, 2018Dear Chump Lady, I drunk dialedNovember 12, 2018What Advice Would You Give an Earlier You?November 9, 2018Managing Divorce ExpectationsNovember 8, 2018Your Time on the Marriage Police ForceNovember 7, 2018Dear Chump Lady, “I still wish I could call him”November 6, 2018How to Deal with Adult Children After Infidelity?November 5, 2018Your Mightiest Moment?November 2, 2018The “What If They’re Really The One” FearNovember 1, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Is this apology total baloney?October 30, 2018Respond to Narcissists with RidiculeOctober 25, 2018‘I Found the OW’s Goodbye Letter in My Safe’October 24, 2018UBT: “You Represent Christmastime”October 22, 2018Dear Chump Lady, He’s stuck on his ‘intentions’October 17, 2018Dear Chump Lady, I have nightmaresOctober 16, 2018The I-Know-What-I-Did-Was-Wrong-But-I-Did-It-Anyway MindfuckOctober 15, 2018Good Advice, Bad Advice?October 12, 2018What Do We See in Narcissists Anyway?October 9, 2018Dear Chump Lady, He left me to BLOG with the OW?October 8, 2018Radical KindnessOctober 5, 2018UBT: ‘I Don’t Understand’ ConsequencesOctober 4, 2018Dear Chump Lady, How did I not know?October 2, 2018When Entitlement Meets VulnerabilityOctober 1, 2018Worst Gift Ever?September 28, 2018UBT: “I Found Myself and Had an Affair”September 24, 2018What It Looked Like, What It WasSeptember 21, 2018Did My Being Controlling Make Him Gay?September 19, 2018Let’s blame the children?September 17, 2018Stupid Shit Affair Partners Say?September 14, 2018UBT: ‘I Hold No Animosity for You’September 13, 2018Dear Chump Lady, I don’t have any good memories of himSeptember 12, 2018Problem? Adulting vs. EscapismSeptember 7, 2018Dear Chump Lady, I can’t give upSeptember 5, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Can I go NC with my step-daughter?August 30, 2018The ‘Otherness’ of the OWAugust 27, 2018He Got a Ring Finger Tattoo for the Other WomanAugust 23, 2018UBT: ‘I’m Sorry You Feel That Way’August 20, 2018God Rest Her SoulAugust 17, 2018Why Blame Victims of Cheaters Above Cheaters Themselves?August 15, 2018We’re Divorcing and Still Living in the Same HouseAugust 14, 2018I’m Obsessed With the Other WomanAugust 13, 2018How Did You Get Rid of Their Crap?August 10, 2018“Closure,” Don’t Do It.August 8, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Am I normal?August 6, 2018Dear Chump Lady, I want out, but I can’t afford itJuly 31, 2018The Case of the Dangling Former SpouseJuly 30, 2018What’s Your Post-Infidelity Super Power?July 27, 2018Be the Support You Wish You HadJuly 26, 2018Dear Chump Lady, I shouldn’t have looked…July 23, 2018UBT: Her Cheater ‘Never Meant for This to Happen’July 19, 2018When You Perform the Pick Me Dance WrongJuly 16, 2018Connecting with Other Chumps?July 13, 2018“Does divorcing her make me the Bad Guy?”July 12, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Is this a unicorn?July 10, 2018Dear Chump Lady, He wants me backJuly 9, 2018Emotional Affairs, Exit Affairs, and GhostsJuly 3, 2018How to Find a Lawyer and Other Chump Survival TipsJune 29, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Why must cheaters add insult to injury?June 27, 2018How to Confront a CheaterJune 26, 2018“What do I tell my crying children?”June 25, 2018Fear, You Don’t Own MeJune 22, 2018Keeping SecretsJune 21, 2018Dear Chump Lady, No contact is killing me!June 19, 2018Recidivism?June 15, 2018Shocker. Rudy Giuliani Still a Cheater.June 14, 2018He Walked Out and I’m Suddenly a Single MomJune 13, 2018A Trust That Cheaters Suck ReminderJune 12, 2018The Dead Cheater DilemmaJune 11, 2018Dear Chump Lady, She knew in her heart he was a cheaterJune 5, 2018Tales from the “Gain a Life” Side?June 1, 2018UBT: “I just want to help you!”May 30, 2018How did you spackle over the incompatibility?May 21, 2018Where Is Cheater SHAME?May 18, 2018Do Cheaters Blameshift?May 14, 2018Monica Lewinsky Isn’t Going to the BallMay 11, 2018How to Respond to ‘I’ve Changed!May 9, 2018Why Does the Other Woman Want to Meet Me?May 7, 2018Dear Chump Lady, He sexted his AUNTMay 2, 2018The Hallmark Channel Is Messing with My HeadMay 1, 2018Dear Chump Lady, I’m too old to start overApril 30, 2018Sunshine, Lollipops, Middle FingersApril 27, 2018When the Pick Me Dance Turns DeadlyApril 26, 2018Why Do Cheaters All Do the Same Stupid Things?April 23, 2018Time for Another Mightiness Check InApril 20, 2018UBT: 7 Reasons Your Husband Left You For His Emotional Affair PartnerApril 17, 2018Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop the smear campaign?April 16, 2018The Perils of Flunking No ContactApril 11, 2018Why Would Someone Be The Other Woman?April 5, 2018I Don’t Want Him, But the Other Woman Can’t Have HimApril 2, 2018Most Audacious Lie?March 30, 2018UBT: I Didn’t Know How to Express My UnhappinessMarch 29, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Better the Cheater I know, right?March 27, 2018Dear Chump Lady, The OW wants $25,000March 22, 2018Dear Chump Lady, He wants to move to New ZealandMarch 21, 2018UBT: I cheated because you’re staleMarch 19, 2018Being the Marriage Police SucksMarch 16, 2018Dear Chump Lady, The cheater doesn’t know I’m pregnantMarch 15, 2018Please Don’t Kill Yourself for a CheaterMarch 13, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Is she a cheater because of her dad?March 12, 2018After Cheating, He Keeps Returning and CryingMarch 5, 2018How Is Your Life Better Without a Cheater?March 2, 2018Infidelity Is So Much More Than CheatingFebruary 23, 2018Australia, You Need to Up Your Scandal GameFebruary 20, 2018Why Does He Get to Look Like a Good Person?February 16, 2018A New Beginning for Valentine’s DayFebruary 13, 2018Dead Cheaters and Terrible DiscoveriesFebruary 12, 2018Check Your Bills for Boob Jobs and Other Great AdviceFebruary 9, 2018Financial Abuse and Your D-DayFebruary 6, 2018Time Again for Infidelity Valentines!February 2, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Why can’t I pull the trigger on the divorce?January 23, 2018Profiles in MightinessJanuary 19, 2018My husband had an affair with my cousin: Should I confront her?January 18, 2018Tuesday Is ComingJanuary 17, 2018New Script for Betrayed Political Wives?January 12, 2018UBT: In Defense of Dating a Married ManJanuary 11, 2018Science Says Narcissists Be Crazy!January 9, 2018Dear Chump Lady, Why won’t he get a life?!January 8, 2018Signs You’ve Been Cheated OnJanuary 5, 2018Snooping in the Modern AgeJanuary 4, 2018How to Get Past the Rage Stage of Betrayal TraumaJanuary 1, 2018Is It Okay to Freak Out the Cheater’s Family?December 27, 2017Tell Me How You’re Mighty, Holiday EditionDecember 22, 2017Dear Chump Lady, Will anyone ever love me with stretchmarks?December 21, 2017UBT: ‘My Dog Loves Mark’ (the Cheater)December 20, 2017Esther Perel in the #MeToo EraDecember 19, 2017Cheater Freak Christmas Countdown!December 15, 2017I Miss Being a Full-Time ParentDecember 12, 2017What to Say to Sanctimonious Rubberneckers?December 8, 2017Do I Believe Him or the Proof?December 5, 2017“Feeling desperate, fearful, rage”December 4, 2017There’s the Door, Matt LauerNovember 30, 2017No, We Bitter, Hopeless Chumps Will Not Come to Your Dinner PartyNovember 28, 2017UBT: “An Optimist’s Guide to Divorce”November 27, 2017Your Stupid Cheater MomentsNovember 24, 2017UBT: “I just wanted to reach out to help you”November 23, 2017Dear Chump Lady, How do I stop feeling sorry for him?November 21, 2017Dear Chump Lady, My ex-wife has some weird requestsNovember 20, 2017Monogamy Is Not the ProblemNovember 8, 2017The Futility in Confronting Affair PartnersNovember 6, 2017Dear Chump Lady, Help! I keep breaking no contactOctober 30, 2017Mr./Ms. Sparkles Is Ready to Date You!October 27, 2017Harvey Weinstein Does TherapyOctober 24, 2017A Shout Out to All You Stalking CheatersOctober 23, 2017The Redeemable Cheater FallacyOctober 20, 2017When They Look Good on PaperOctober 19, 2017Un-Chumping Post-Infidelity, A PrimerOctober 18, 2017Dear Chump Lady, How do I deal with my cheater dad?October 16, 2017Divorce HacksOctober 13, 2017I’m the OW and I’m Terrified He Will Cheat on MeOctober 12, 2017Want to spot a narcissist? Just ask one.October 10, 2017Dear Chump Lady, She says it was “just kissing”October 9, 2017Chump Lady Takes Back ParisOctober 7, 2017Who Was Your Infidelity Angel?October 5, 2017Problem? Adult solution vs. Cheater solutionOctober 4, 2017Cheater Freak of the Week?October 3, 2017I Want What She’s HavingSeptember 29, 2017I Slept with My Ex!September 28, 2017Dear Chump Lady, I wish I would’ve pressed chargesSeptember 26, 2017What Got You Unstuck from a Cheater?September 22, 2017Dear Chump Lady, Do I have to be friendly with my ex?September 21, 2017I don’t miss him at all. Is there something wrong with me?September 19, 2017Rituals for New Lives?September 15, 2017Dear Chump Lady, He loves me, he’s worried about me… he left?September 14, 2017The Mindfuck Only Has Three ChannelsSeptember 12, 2017Who You Thought You Were, Who You Really AreSeptember 8, 2017Dear Chump Lady, I can’t seem to do No ContactSeptember 7, 2017What You Thought It Was, What It Really WasSeptember 1, 2017Dear Chump Lady, Why is the OW calling our house?August 30, 2017Dear Chump Lady, He proposed… and then he cheatedAugust 29, 2017They Cheated in Our BedAugust 23, 2017All Hail Joss Whedon the Conquering DouchebagAugust 22, 2017Dear Chump Lady, Do they turn bad or were they always bad?August 16, 2017Do Cheaters Suffer from Low Self-Esteem?August 15, 2017The Health Costs of Staying?August 11, 2017Dear Chump Lady, He won’t stop texting the OW in front of meAugust 10, 2017Dear Chump Lady, I don’t think my cheater is like the other cheaters…August 7, 2017Chump Shaming as Competitive SportAugust 3, 2017RIP Julie GomollJuly 29, 2017Dear Chump Lady, I didn’t just discover cheating — he’s a criminal tooJuly 24, 2017How Can I Hurt Him to the Core for Cheating on Me?July 20, 2017I’m a Cheater and My Wife Is Such a ChumpJuly 20, 2017Cheater Warns She’ll Regret Leaving HimJuly 18, 2017Miracles Happen on TuesdaysJuly 13, 2017An Interview with Jen Waite, Author of “A Beautiful, Terrible Thing”July 11, 2017What Makes You Resilient?July 7, 2017Merit Badges for CheatersJune 30, 2017Ex Brings New Girlfriend to Child’s Concert, Meh DisappearsJune 28, 2017UBT: Cheaters and GraceJune 26, 2017Flip the Script — The Un-LetterJune 23, 2017This Is Your Brain on HopiumJune 21, 2017I’m Obsessed with the Tall, Blonde Other WomanJune 20, 2017Get Mighty, Retrain in a Tech CareerJune 12, 2017Rage Plumbing and Other Acts of Productive AngerJune 9, 2017Husband Is in an Emotional Affair with His High School GirlfriendJune 6, 2017Dear Chump Lady, How do I get over the pick-me dance?June 5, 2017The Decline of Tiger WoodsMay 31, 2017Dear Chump Lady, I smell a generous settlement…May 29, 2017Huma Finally LeavesMay 22, 2017Where’s the Karma for Cheaters?May 16, 2017Open Marriage SkepticismMay 15, 2017I’ve Got a Problem with Self-WorthMay 10, 2017Dear Chump Lady, The court wants me to say she is a “good parent.” I can’t.May 9, 2017UBT: Leaving and CleavingMay 8, 2017David Brooks Might Want to Rethink that Character ThingMay 4, 2017He Divorced Me Because We Don’t Have ‘Chemistry’May 2, 2017Why Do I Have to Pay Her When She Cheated?April 24, 2017Best Sassy Chump Retorts?April 21, 2017Dear Chump Lady, I don’t stand a chance datingApril 20, 2017Paltering — Another Kind of MindfuckeryApril 18, 2017And the Mighty Award Goes to Dianne Bentley!April 12, 2017Your Most Ridiculous RIC Therapy NuggetsApril 7, 2017Dear Chump Lady, I’ll leave him after I lose 20 lbsMarch 30, 2017UBT: “You’re incapable of forgiveness”March 29, 2017Is Huma Abedin Really Working It Out with Anthony Weiner?March 27, 2017He’s Leaving Me Because I Suspect CheatingMarch 27, 2017Forgiveness TrollsMarch 23, 2017Her Response to Abandonment? Getting a Masters DegreeMarch 21, 2017New Infidelity EuphemismsMarch 17, 2017Other Women and the Universal SisterhoodMarch 14, 2017Your Imaginary Chump-Cheater BiopicsMarch 10, 2017You Might Actually Suck, But You’re Still a ChumpMarch 8, 2017UBT: ‘This Isn’t the Real Me’March 6, 2017Tell Me How You’re Mighty!March 3, 2017UBT: “I was just experimenting”March 2, 2017Am I responsible for the kids’ relationship with their dad?February 27, 2017I Am a Rock. I Am an Island.February 24, 2017Dear Chump Lady, Did she leave because I’m not good enough?February 23, 2017UBT: There Is No Right or Wrong in the WorldFebruary 16, 2017What Lessons Did You Learn From Cheating?February 15, 2017UBT: 12 Lessons I Learned From CheatingFebruary 13, 2017UBT: My Heart Is Now Open and the Feelings Are FeltFebruary 10, 2017Dear Chump Lady, Do I miss the mindfuck?February 7, 2017The Annual Infidelity Valentine’s Day Poetry ContestFebruary 5, 2017What a Good Friend Looks LikeFebruary 3, 2017How Do I Divorce a Narcissist?January 31, 2017What Did Your Sad Sausage Want Sympathy For?January 30, 2017Your Best No Contact StrategiesJanuary 27, 2017How Do I Tell My Pregnant SIL Her Husband Is Cheating?January 25, 2017Dear Chump Lady, Cheater’s mom enables him in his affairJanuary 23, 2017What’s Your Patronus?January 20, 2017Biggest Empowerment Jolt after D-Day?January 13, 2017The Cheater Was Going to Stop… ReallyJanuary 11, 2017Got Anger After Being Cheated on?January 10, 2017The Fallacy of Blissful IgnoranceJanuary 9, 2017Overcoming Awkward FirstsJanuary 6, 2017Dear Chump Lady, Is this a unicorn?January 4, 2017UBT: Chump Lady’s AttitudeJanuary 3, 2017Stupid Things Cheaters Say in TherapyDecember 30, 2016Why Do I Keep Giving a Cheater Second Chances?December 28, 2016Tis the Season for New TraditionsDecember 23, 2016UBT: He blew up the marriage to improve itDecember 22, 2016Compartmentalized Cheaters and Their AffairsDecember 20, 2016Divorcing the Disordered — An Interview with Dr. George SimonDecember 19, 2016How Do I Co-Parent with an Addict?December 14, 2016Dear Chump Lady, Should my cheater be in the delivery room?December 13, 2016Tips for Starting a New Life?December 9, 2016UBT: A Letter from ‘the Baby’December 7, 2016The Annual Christmas Freak CountdownDecember 2, 2016Don’t Confess an Affair?November 28, 2016Dear Chump Lady, Husband said OW’s name during sexNovember 22, 2016Dear Chump Lady, When dating, how do I know if someone is a cheater?November 21, 2016Co-Parenting With Fuckwits, Your Thoughts…November 18, 2016UBT: Don’t Define MeNovember 15, 2016Cheating Is a Very “Individual” ThingNovember 14, 2016Tell Me Something GoodNovember 11, 2016Just Got HPV, but I’ve Been Monogamous for 30 YearsNovember 10, 2016Dear America, You’re in an abusive relationshipNovember 9, 2016‘Can Cheaters Change?’ Is the Wrong QuestionNovember 4, 2016Flip the Script, ChumpsNovember 3, 2016UBT: It Has Nothing To Do With YouNovember 2, 2016What Did You Lose By Reconciling?November 1, 2016The Pep Talk You Would Give Yourself at D-DayOctober 28, 2016My Ex Doesn’t Want Me to DateOctober 27, 2016Men Cheat Because They Love Us? WTF?October 26, 2016Have a Bitch CookieOctober 21, 2016The StrangerOctober 20, 2016Dear Chump Lady, Please help un-chump my momOctober 17, 2016Ghoulies and Ghosties and Long-Legged Beasties and Things That Cheat in the NightOctober 14, 2016The “Children Are Resilient” ArgumentOctober 12, 2016Dear Chump Lady, He says he thought he’d never get caughtOctober 11, 2016Yeah, That’s Not An ApologyOctober 10, 2016The Day of the DeadbeatOctober 7, 2016Tori’s Marriage-Saving PregnancyOctober 6, 2016 Posts pagination Previous Page 1 … 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 Next Page TweetShareSharePin
