Archives UBT: ‘Affair Proofing’ Your MarriageDecember 11, 2023Biggest Lie You Ever Believed?December 8, 2023The Fear They’re Going to Be Better for Somebody ElseDecember 7, 2023Abandoned Wives and Runaway Husbands: An Interview with Vikki StarkDecember 5, 2023The Sad Karma Spiral of Shakira’s Ex Gerard PiqueDecember 4, 2023Peace, Love, and Gwyneth Paltrow Holding Hands with Her Ex’s Girlfriend Dakota JohnsonDecember 1, 2023UBT: Narcissist Cheater Life CoachNovember 30, 2023UBT: Should An Affair Be Disclosed?November 29, 2023The Other Woman Gave Me a Brownie PlateNovember 28, 2023He Had Another Girlfriend. Do I Tell Her?November 27, 2023Real Remorse? Or Genuine Imitation Naugahyde Remorse?November 26, 202320/20 Hindsight Signs of CheatingNovember 24, 2023Why Is the Cheater Happy Living His Best Life And I Am Not?November 23, 2023UBT: Cheater Wants Her to Save Him from ‘Nightmare’November 22, 2023How to Talk to Kids About Divorce: An Interview with Sue AtkinsNovember 21, 2023I Want Him to Stay with the Other WomanNovember 20, 2023Trickle Truth Is Neither Trickle Nor TruthNovember 19, 2023Cheater Apology FailsNovember 17, 2023Jeff Bezos and Lauren Sanchez’s Twu Wuv EngagementNovember 15, 2023The Mid-Life Crisis Made Me Do It. Really?November 14, 2023Can I Keep the Other Woman Away from My Kids?November 13, 2023UBT: ‘The Answer Is No’November 9, 2023He Left 3 Kids for His Affair. How Can He Be Happy?November 8, 2023Surviving Abandonment and Single Parenthood: An Interview with Jenny BallNovember 7, 2023She Wants Friendship with Her Ex. He Wants Bootie Calls.November 6, 2023Why Am I Single?November 2, 2023UBT: ‘I Got Myself Into a Relationship’November 1, 2023‘I Survived Two Divorces and a Car Jacking’ An Interview with Dave JacksonOctober 31, 2023Does She Ever Regret Cheating on Me?October 30, 2023Where Are You Now? Any Scars From Being Cheated On?October 27, 2023Did the Relationships Overlap? Am I the Other Woman?October 26, 2023The Impossibility of the 180 and Other Reconciliation AdviceOctober 24, 2023Jealous of the Other WomanOctober 23, 2023How Were the Kids Impacted by Infidelity?October 20, 2023Domestic Violence Survivors Are Infidelity Survivors TooOctober 19, 2023Is This an Emotional Affair?October 18, 2023Secret Sexual Basements: An Interview with Dr. Omar MinwallaOctober 17, 2023Jada and Will Smith Are Divorced?October 12, 2023The Other Woman Is ‘Single, White, Female’ CreepyOctober 11, 2023Infidelity, Divorce, and Cancer: The Suck TrifectaOctober 10, 2023UBT: ‘Refrain From Any Accusations’October 9, 2023Did You Forgive a Cheater?October 6, 2023Got Used After Being ‘Friends’ with ExOctober 5, 2023When You Lose the Pick Me DanceOctober 4, 2023Unwittingly the Other ManOctober 3, 2023UBT: The Other Woman Sends Her LoveOctober 2, 2023Unfriendly Divorce (Or That Time I Was Mean to Gwyneth Paltrow)September 28, 2023Why Do I Respond to His Texts and Feel Guilty?September 27, 2023Cheaters and Impression ManagementSeptember 26, 2023FW of the WeekSeptember 22, 2023UBT: ‘I Am Feeling Extra Sad’September 20, 2023Getting the Hell Out of DodgeSeptember 19, 2023Kristi Noem and Corey Lewandowski: A Hypocrisy SupernovaSeptember 18, 2023Bait and Switch Cheater TacticsSeptember 15, 2023UBT: Cheater Demands There Be NO AwkwardnessSeptember 14, 2023Busted Sexting Other GuysSeptember 13, 2023Don’t Get Mad, Build an OrganizationSeptember 12, 2023Danny Masterson and the Power of Impression ManagementSeptember 11, 2023Did Your Cheater ‘Let Themselves Go’?September 8, 2023UBT: I’m Sorry for How I Treated YouSeptember 7, 2023He Doesn’t Seem Upset About Losing MeSeptember 5, 2023Things Cheaters Later Claim They Never WantedSeptember 1, 2023My Life Is a Soap OperaAugust 31, 2023Why Are Cheaters So Brazen?August 30, 2023OW Taunting, Hard to Be ‘Meh’August 29, 2023Dumped By Speakerphone After 9 YearsAugust 28, 2023Any Jesus Cheater Stories?August 25, 2023He Cheats, But He’s a VeganAugust 24, 2023Nice or Nasty? How Could She Be So Wrong About a 30 Year Marriage?August 22, 2023Ex-Wife Wants to Manage His DatingAugust 21, 2023Are Affairs Addictions?August 17, 2023UBT: Not ‘Appreciating’ the AffairAugust 16, 2023When Will I Feel Meh?August 15, 2023Natalie Portman ChumpedAugust 14, 2023True Cheater Confessions?August 11, 2023Dad’s a Closeted Cheater and Mom Wants to ReconcileAugust 9, 2023He Still Works with His Affair PartnerAugust 8, 2023A Beautiful Send OffAugust 7, 2023Loving 1000 Things That Aren’t a CheaterAugust 4, 2023He ‘Lost the Moral High Ground’ When He Told About His Wife’s AffairAugust 3, 2023He’d Like to Apologize for ‘His Role’ in Breaking Her ArmAugust 2, 2023Telling People Your Chump StoryAugust 1, 2023Cheating or Overreacting?July 31, 2023Cheaters Are Not Worth Your Precious LifeJuly 27, 2023He Dumped Me for His ‘Best Friend’July 26, 2023This Mighty Woman Left a Cheater While Pregnant with TwinsJuly 25, 2023He Blindsided Me with Cheating, I Blindsided Him with DivorceJuly 24, 2023Did Anyone Throw the Cheater Out Immediately?July 21, 2023UBT: Your Cheating Spouse Is the Real VictimJuly 20, 2023Ordinary People with Extraordinary MightinessJuly 18, 2023Huw Edwards: His Double Life and Faithful Chump Vicky FlindJuly 17, 2023Any Dating PTSD?July 14, 2023Her Affair Is the Theme of Her New RestaurantJuly 13, 2023Snappy Answers to Chumpy QuestionsJuly 12, 2023Does Couples Therapy with Cheaters Work? An Interview with Andrew G. MarshallJuly 11, 2023Jonah Hill and the Weaponization of Therapy-SpeakJuly 10, 2023Your Bravest Moment Leaving a CheaterJuly 7, 2023UBT: Cheater Ex Wants to Meet Her New BoyfriendJuly 5, 2023Daily Mail Chump Shames Older WomanJuly 4, 2023Signs Your Body Sensed You Were Being Cheated On?June 30, 2023Cheating Bowling Coach Dumber Than a Bag of RocksJune 29, 2023What to Do If You Suspect CheatingJune 27, 2023Do I Tell the Bride He’s a Serial Cheater?June 26, 2023When Did You Know You Deserved Better?June 23, 2023Divorced Him, Took Him Back — Am I a Unicorn?June 22, 2023The Inevitable Tori Spelling and Dean McDermott DivorceJune 21, 2023I Don’t Want to Be a Switzerland FriendJune 19, 2023Mordant Humor and Other PastimesJune 16, 2023Why Is He Angry at Me About His Midlife Crisis?June 15, 2023Where Do I Put His Stuff?June 14, 2023Should I Encourage My Children’s Relationship with Their Gay Dad?June 13, 2023My Cheater Isn’t a ‘Bad’ PersonJune 12, 2023How Much Worse Was It?June 9, 2023Can I Send the OW His Emails Begging Me to Take Him Back?June 8, 2023A Cheater, a Storage Locker, Decades of SecretsJune 7, 2023UBT Me, PleaseJune 6, 2023She’s Having an Affair with Her ‘Work Husband’June 5, 2023The Royal ‘We’ Takes CreditJune 2, 2023My Cheater Doesn’t Feel Sorry, He Just Feels ‘Bad’June 1, 2023UBT: Tell Me How to ReconcileMay 31, 2023UBT: ‘You Aren’t Discarded’May 30, 2023His Wife Didn’t Understand HimMay 29, 2023Before D-Day, After D-DayMay 26, 2023Ashley Madison Study Finds Cheaters Feel HappyMay 25, 2023He Butt-Dialed Me from the Other Woman’sMay 24, 2023How Cheating Affects the KidsMay 23, 2023UBT: My Spectacular BetrayalMay 22, 2023Carl Lentz Cops to Being ‘Inappropriate’May 18, 2023UBT: The Most Common Mistakes Made by Betrayed Spouses in Recovering from an AffairMay 17, 2023Tim Elliott, Chumped But Not DownMay 15, 2023Holy False Equivalence, Bat ManMay 12, 2023Untangling the SkeinMay 11, 2023UBT: I Don’t Remember Meeting Sex WorkersMay 10, 2023Elizabeth Holmes’ Latest SuckerMay 9, 2023How Do I Survive Mother’s Day?May 8, 2023Mighty People You Didn’t Know Were ChumpedMay 5, 2023Women Regrets Divorcing Her Cheating Husband After Watching New Fatal AttractionMay 4, 2023UBT: I Would Never Hurt YouMay 3, 2023Trust That They SuckMay 2, 2023I Want the FlowersMay 1, 2023Cheater vs. Animal Karma StoriesApril 28, 2023I Have Cancer, But the OW ‘Suffers’April 27, 2023UBT: ‘I’m Flabbergasted by the Abuse Narrative You Created’April 24, 2023How Did You Explain Your Split?April 21, 2023UBT: Humans of New York, Douchey CheaterApril 20, 2023I Looked at My Boyfriend’s TinderApril 17, 2023How to Get Over His Cruel Words About Why He Left?April 13, 2023‘I’m Grieving the Lost Years’April 11, 2023UBT: ‘The Program Has Made Me a Safer Person’April 10, 2023The 3 Worst Things You Don’t MissApril 7, 2023Queen Camilla Dropped the ‘Consort’April 6, 2023UBT: ‘I Am Recovering From Fear’April 5, 2023The Other Woman Left Him and I Don’t Know How I FeelApril 4, 2023I Want to Out Him as a Cross-Dressing CheaterApril 3, 2023Tell Me How You’re Mighty, Boston EditionMarch 31, 2023Why Do People Help Cheaters Cheat?March 30, 2023‘I’m Considering Just Giving Up’March 29, 2023Shakira’s Ex Plans to ‘Keep Doing What I Want’March 28, 2023UBT: ‘I Do Not See Him As a Cheater’March 27, 2023Schmoopie Cheating Karma Stories?March 24, 2023The Other Woman Is 6-Months PregnantMarch 23, 2023Cheating Dentist Poisons WifeMarch 22, 2023She’s Sorry Now That She CheatedMarch 21, 2023UBT: ‘I Had a Moment of Weakness As a Fragile, Broken Human’March 20, 2023Every Bit of Lousy Reconciliation AdviceMarch 17, 2023I’m Angry At Myself For Not Leaving SoonerMarch 9, 2023Alex Murdaugh, King of the Double LifeMarch 7, 2023Why Won’t She Admit She’s Cheating on Me?March 6, 2023Real Monkey Love vs. Barbed Wire MonkeysMarch 3, 2023The Cheater Was My Best Friend And I Dumped HerMarch 2, 2023UBT: Affairs Can Be Self-CareMarch 1, 2023Carolyn Hax’s ‘Bitter Woman’ Pile OnFebruary 28, 2023‘What I Did to HIM?’ DARVOFebruary 27, 2023A Unicorn Ate My Facebook PageFebruary 24, 2023What Do I Say to the People Who Knew About the Cheating?February 23, 2023UBT: Cheater Wants to Get Back Together With Ex-WifeFebruary 22, 2023An Inconvenient Time for a D-DayFebruary 20, 2023How Is Your Pet Better Than Your Ex?February 17, 2023Chumps and Beards and an OurPath PodcastFebruary 15, 2023UBT: The Heart Wants John Tory in OfficeFebruary 14, 2023DNA Test Reveals Cheating Ex Had More KidsFebruary 13, 2023Infidelity Valentine’s Day Poetry 2023February 10, 2023We Had a Good Life — Why Did He Cheat?February 9, 2023‘He’s Moved On. I Haven’t.’February 8, 2023Do It Yourself Divorce — Good Idea or Not?February 7, 2023UBT: ‘Schoompie Wants the Scoop-y’ on Chump’s Dead HusbandFebruary 6, 2023How Many People Knew and Didn’t Tell You?February 3, 2023Looking Back and Marveling at the SpackleFebruary 2, 2023The Other Woman Calls Me for AdviceFebruary 1, 2023Parasitic Boyfriend Won’t LeaveJanuary 30, 2023What Did You Learn from Being Chumped?January 27, 2023He’s Checked Out for OnlyFansJanuary 26, 2023I Feel Stronger Breaking Up This TimeJanuary 25, 2023Is Every Cheater Mentally Ill?January 24, 2023UBT: ‘I Like Me. A Lot.’January 23, 2023Stupid Cheater Lame ExcusesJanuary 20, 2023Child Support Enforcement Can Bite MeJanuary 19, 2023Why Is My Ex Stonewalling Me?January 18, 2023Shakira’s Epic Takedown of Her ExJanuary 16, 2023Singing Walls and DementiaJanuary 13, 2023Don’t Tell Me to Leave HimJanuary 12, 2023Debunking Dan SavageJanuary 11, 2023UBT: The Other Woman Sends a Self-Help BookJanuary 10, 2023Shakira v Schmoopie: The TimelineJanuary 9, 2023The ‘Side Chik’ — Krystal Hamburger’s Moronic Ad CampaignJanuary 5, 2023Divorce Is ‘More Than I Can Deal With’January 4, 2023The Other Woman Is a TherapistJanuary 3, 2023Be Free, Unfold the SwansJanuary 2, 2023Where Are You Now?December 30, 2022UBT: You Encouraged My Wife to Leave MeDecember 29, 2022The OW Calls Herself a FeministDecember 27, 2022UBT: The OW Who Just Wants to HelpDecember 26, 2022A Golden Retriever, Pine Cone Elf, Merry Christmas MiscellanyDecember 23, 2022Should I Tell My Son His Dad Cheated?December 22, 2022How Do You Ask for a Divorce?December 21, 2022Ex-Wife’s Affair Timeline Doesn’t Add UpDecember 20, 2022I Regret Unfriending My Cheating ExDecember 19, 2022What Did You Reclaim? How Did You Reclaim It?December 16, 2022UBT: I Am The Other WomanDecember 15, 2022Toxic MIL Pushes Mediation ‘For The Children’December 14, 2022UBT: How Do I Handle the Death of My Secret Lover?December 13, 2022What Dreams of Happiness Did You Crush?December 9, 2022Helen Skelton Living Her Best Life After Being ChumpedDecember 6, 2022Strategies to Protect Against Mentally Unstable Mistress?December 5, 2022UBT: Bad Cheater PoetryDecember 1, 2022Advice on Confronting Dead Cheater’s Schoompie?November 30, 2022UBT: A Million Dollars to ReconcileNovember 29, 2022Cheating Songs That Drive You Nuts?November 25, 2022Took Him Back, Now He’s Cheating with His BossNovember 22, 20227 Ways Elon Musk Is Your Average Dime Store NarcissistNovember 21, 2022Stupid Things Cheaters Say After D-Day?November 18, 2022I Told Her He Cheated and She Married Him AnywayNovember 17, 2022UBT: I Always Felt TrappedNovember 16, 2022Trying to Divorce When the Cheater Won’t Move OutNovember 15, 2022Woman Gets $7 Million in Infidelity Post-Nup ClauseNovember 9, 2022Why Is He Copying Me?November 8, 2022Do Cheaters Disguise Themselves As Addicts?November 7, 20223 Tips for Dealing with Betrayal Trauma RageNovember 4, 2022Alain de Botton Can Bite MeNovember 3, 2022UBT: Why HER?November 2, 2022Heart Broken: Take a Beta Blocker?October 31, 2022What Did You Unknowingly Do for the OW/OM?October 28, 2022Everyone Tells Me He’s Not a Bad PersonOctober 27, 2022My Family Wants Me to Support My Cheating BrotherOctober 25, 2022When Schmoopie Is a Public FigureOctober 24, 2022What Schmoopie Thought They Were Getting vs. What They GotOctober 21, 2022My Friend Thinks I Should Be Nicer to the Other WomanOctober 20, 2022How Do I Know When I’m Done?October 19, 2022Olivia Wilde’s Cheating Timeline Busted?October 18, 2022I Thought We Were Monogamous. She Thought We Were Polyamorous.October 17, 2022Did You Spackle?October 14, 2022Do You Think ‘Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater’?October 13, 2022UBT: Should I feel guilty about 25 years of cheating?October 11, 2022Should I Reach Out to the OW?October 10, 2022Your Chump FriendshipsOctober 7, 2022The Rise and Fall of Wife GuysOctober 5, 2022He Left for the Other Woman, But Stays in ContactOctober 3, 2022Worst Gift Ever?September 30, 2022UBT: Other Woman Doesn’t Want the “Mistress” LabelSeptember 29, 2022UBT: The Children Made Me CheatSeptember 28, 2022Why Does My Cheating-Ex Show Off Around Me?September 27, 2022And the Saddest Sausage Goes to…September 23, 2022Adam Levine Suggests Naming His Child After His MistressSeptember 21, 2022UBT: Dr. Keith Ablow ‘Infidelity Is a Lousy Reason to End a Marriage’September 20, 2022Long Distance Relationships and Double LivesSeptember 19, 2022How Did You Mentally Survive Infidelity?September 16, 2022How Do I Get My Cheating Wife to Reconcile with Me?September 15, 2022When the Cheater Is in the FamilySeptember 13, 2022Camilla Queen ConsortSeptember 12, 2022Chump Epiphanies?September 9, 2022He Claims He Just Sexts and Never MeetsSeptember 7, 2022He Cheated Me and His EmployerSeptember 6, 2022Stress of Staying in a Toxic RelationshipSeptember 2, 2022Leave a Cheater, Gain a Bradley CooperSeptember 1, 2022How Do I Help My Chumped Son?August 29, 2022Cringey Cheater ProfunditiesAugust 26, 2022Chumped with a Cheating FriendAugust 23, 2022Woman Outs Cheater in Aussie NewspaperAugust 22, 2022Any Regrets Leaving a Cheater?August 19, 2022Michelle Branch Arrested for Slapping Cheating HusbandAugust 15, 2022What’s Your Ex’s Name on Your Cell Phone?August 12, 2022Schmoopie Dumped Him, He Blames the KidsAugust 11, 2022Olivia Newton John’s Unwavering PositivityAugust 10, 2022UBT: ‘Give Me Some Clarity’August 9, 2022The ‘I’m Sorry, We Good?’ PlayAugust 4, 2022How Do They Flip So Fast?August 3, 2022Five Months Pregnant and He Announces He’s Getting His ‘Needs’ Met ElsewhereAugust 2, 2022Uber Driver Busts Mary Elizabeth Coleman as a Jesus CheaterAugust 1, 2022How Much Did You Spend on Reconciliation?July 29, 2022I Need to Know the OW’s IdentityJuly 28, 2022The Elon Musk Super Douche AffairJuly 27, 2022What If He Changes for the OW?July 26, 2022Reconcile at a $12K Marriage RetreatJuly 25, 2022Jennifer Lopez Marries New and Improved Ben AffleckJuly 21, 2022UBT: I Am Not In ControlJuly 19, 2022He Runs Me Down to Our DaughterJuly 14, 2022UBT: Destroying Marriages to Improve ThemJuly 12, 2022UBT: ‘Please Send Me the Money’July 11, 2022Cheating Father Gets Unvarnished ObituaryJuly 8, 2022‘She Refuses to Understand We Are Over’July 7, 2022 Posts pagination Previous Page 1 2 3 4 5 6 … 9 Next Page TweetShareSharePin
Peace, Love, and Gwyneth Paltrow Holding Hands with Her Ex’s Girlfriend Dakota JohnsonDecember 1, 2023
